The Secondary Board is inactive. We meet in a SUPER PRIVATE group on Facebook, but you have to start at the Secondary Board and introduce yourself properly to make sure that you are legit and not a troll. The mod sometimes forgets to check for new members.
I don't know when you signed up last, but sign up again and I'll remind the mod to check for new members.
If you're still having problems, post here on the Preg Board and one of us will get after the mod.
By the way - I completely understand your issues about dragging DD to the appointments. That is an issue that has come up.