TL was a mistake

by Jackie

I think your truely blessed. I do understand that this is not a planned pregnancy and you are not pleased. My husband would be very upset. I would love to have another baby but thanks to a bad decision, my TL I can't. I am depresesed about the issue of not having control as to wheather or not we have another child. We have 3 beautiful babies 13, 7 and 3. I thank God every day they are healthy. The TL has screwed up my life. I had it done right after the birth of our third child and with days I was having horrible pelvic pain that never cleared up. The pain got so bad it even hurt to make love to my husband. Turns out I had a few ovarian cycts on my ovary. I have NEVER had any problems like this. It took me almost a year to get them undercontrol via accupunture, herbs and regular medicine. Surgery was not an option since they were not big enough. Once I cleared this up I had issues with migranes so bad that I had an MRI to rule out a anurism. I have little to no sex drive since the TL. Every time I ask my physician for help she says it's a hormonal change. She even wanted to put me on Prosac which I refused. I"m 36, funny how this change came on immediately after my tubal 3 years ago. I"m crabby all the time, alittle depressed at times and I plain just don't like myself 99% of the time. I would give anything to do this over again, even if we have no more children. Good luck with your court case!! My husband always kids and says that the surgeon only did one side, but now I will tell him it does happen. I wish I had all the information before hand or found this site before hand.

Posted on Feb 16, 2006, 5:26 PM

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