Please re-read what you wrote, for ease of reference, I will quote you here
"Either you're respectful or you're not."
Now, I'll quote you here
"because he's dead, I'm not worried about what he would think."
It appears to me that your one of the latter Mr Wolfe.
I think you know my views and I hope I've expressed my feeling on the subject coherantly. It is because of this that I do not wish to enter into further conversation on the subject.