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A Dude (no login)
Posted Jan 19, 2007 2:15 PM
You need to understand the concept of the Double Standard.
Guys get points for bedding down a girl - The girl has points taken away from her for bedding down with a guy.
What you gave the Guy (Jerk) was just something to get him off.
He used you.
It really is all about waiting to be in a relationship - Learning trust - Sure the guy still can be a jerk - However just about every women knows that if you just give it away to anyone you can expect the guy to brag and tell his friends. That builds his ego.
People older then you go to bars and get drunk and will dive into bed with just about anyone.
So now look in the mirror and say - We all make mistrakes and please make no more - Dooooon't just give it away because you are not just going to loose a reputation - You can get infections on the street by going behind the shed with just anyone and in the future not be able to have kids -
Hey I am not trying to be hard on you - Shoot when I was your age I would have done just about anything to get some.
What you can do is hold your head up high and say the guy told a lie - If no pics or witness?
OK maybe someone else will disagree on telling the fib to cover your ass?
Also based on current web numbers lots of girls in your school are giving the guys BJ's or more so you are not alone- |
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