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A Dude (no login)
Posted Jan 27, 2007 3:14 PM
"Dude, you might be a really nice guy, but you have been in quite a few relationships with girls, and you keep moving on to a new girl."
It is NOT exactly like that - but Yes many relationships - Now I am on the older side. One long term marriage and one 3 year live in relationship.
About 15 years ago I discovered that I had really broken a girls heart and said to myself I NEVER want to do that again. So after that I have made it a point to try and make a relationship work - However I do have one thing I sort of demand of myself.
If after a while in a new relationship I cannot say "I Love You" While making love - That tells me it is NOT going to happen and I need to end that relationship.
I can say this much - I remain friends with my ex's in most cases.
One disadvatage of dating older women - When menopause starts to set in IT CAN BE Difficult to remain in a relatioship.
Last night a friend who became a fire breathing dragon - Just friends even though we both admit we are attracted to each other - I was smart enough early on to recognize that it would never work as intimate partners.
She still has her periods and becomes a monster with PMS - And I can see she will be even worse as she approaches menopause.
Anyway I am not being defensive - 6 months here and 1 year there add up after a while. I am being more careful in my selection process. Getting to know the girl before even asking her out for the first date.
I have discovered some great ways to meet healthy attractive women so I do have a pool to select from. It requires being careful.
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