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A Dude (no login)
Posted Jun 21, 2009 2:27 PM
First I need to tell you that I am just about text book standard in size.
Hymens vary in thickness. One girl I was with - it took me three different occasions to open the Hymen up. Another was almost pain free with just a few drops of blood.
I have many gal friends who have shared what it was like for them the first time. Not one said it was a major issue. I think it could become a major issue if you focus so much on this one event, it adds problems you do not need re fear.
Of course if you really wanted too you could do some of that basic "opening up" yourself with a toy - including one of many homemade options - Carrots - Cucumber etc.
What really counts in a caring partner who will go as slow as necessary and hold off until next time and as I said even a third day to complete a full penetration.
Expecting pain will prevent you from getting wet during foreplay - If you are not sufficiently lubricated then it will be even more uncomfortable. I suspect a few gals have even opened themselves up with their own fingers - however none of my gal friends have told me that. Bike accidents and tree climbing events Yes -
The first time for real full intercourse is usually not all the great anyway - Experience will make it truly wonderful if you have a wonderful partner. In the mean time get some self service warm ups with your own fingers or more. |
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