I am a virgin and I about to be married in August and I am scared as hell. The things is that my future husband is also a virgin and I know for a fact he has no idea about sex, and this has me even more scared. I just don't know what to do, I know for sure that I get really tense, in the genital area even when we makeout and he may touch me in that area, I just can't get myself to relax. I am afraid I am going to freak out on my wedding night. Please Help me.

The problem only exists in your mind, there is no real problem. Your body is made to be penetrated. Either trust your husband or find yourself someone experienced enough to teach you something.

wonder how they got on ? They are so lucky to be virgins on their wedding night.

Do you have a psychiatrist? Id do, he's very good. If he can't help you mentally (or you don't feel the need for mental/emotional help), perhaps you should ask for a prescription for ativan/lorazepam. I have Social Anxiety Disorder, so I get nervous A LOT!! Ativan helps me get through everyday life, even when making out with my girlfriend. If not a psychiatrist, absolutely anyone with an M.D. (ie: Physician, Gynecologist/obstetrician, etc.).

Also, there is no such thing as not knowing about sex. It is quite literally an instinctive/hormonal reaction/proccess. Once you get into bed with him naked, everything just falls right into place =D.

What you're feeling is absolutely normal and a natural reaction for a couple of virgins. I thought I would die before the first time, and now, it couldn't seem any more casual to my girlfriend and i. I still wish we would have waited until marriage, though ;).

Visit www.themarriagebed.com and click on discussion boards. It is the perfect website for you. About 80% of the people on this site were both virgins at marriage and they have lots of good forums and advice. Most of them are now still married ten years later and are having great sex lives. They will dispel any fears you might have.

Ask your question on the forum "What do I need to know about sex" or "Before you marry"

must check out that website

if two virgins start kissing and undressing each other, the penis will get stiff and the vagina will start to get wet automatically. The guy will instinctly discover how to slide his fingers inside her pussy back/forth and then his desire to put his penis inside where his fingers were, will take over.

Two virgins on a dessert island can fuck without needing someone to tell them what to do. Books are not needed unless u want to learn about birth control.

I know this because I got preggie on my wedding night because were both virgins and did not have a clue about sex. My family "did not talk about those things as a family rule".

I had a baby girl 9 months later, and she is special to both families.

Between now and your wedding night, masturbate to orgasm. Use a peeled cucumber as a dildo. Make sure he does not penetrate you until you are quite hot and horny, either by his foreplay or by your masturbating.
Don't go to bed too late, and both of you should go light on alcohol.