my boyfriend has been asked whether he would donate a condom of sperm to help a very nice lesbian couple have a baby.

the couple will hold one of their vaginas open with a speculum, cut the tip off the condom as it is lowered down into the vagina, then squeeze it to eject the sperm. So it will reach the cervix easily.

it will be done at ovulation, as determined by a temperature guage which records a lift in body temperature.

if the couple register my boyfriend as the father of the proposed child, he would have to pay child maintenance for about 18-20 years, even if he never sees the child.

if they say they don't know who the father is, then he pays nothing.

it is a very expensive and stressful for lesbians to go through a sperm bank. this is a very simple way around the problem.

Of course, my boyfriend could donate more condoms of sperm if pregnancy is not achieved first time.

then of course, there may be requests for more children to make a complete family for the couple.

We would like to help this very nice couple, but are we doing the right thing? We said we would need to think about it before giving an answer.

I am comfortable for him to do this, and I would milk his semen with my hand into the condom, and take it to the girls, and watch it being inserted, to make sure none was given to anyone else.

DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY OPINIONS ON THIS?

I guess you will be going ahead with this, but are you really sure about your boyfriend having two families?

Is he going to want to become involved with his other children if they are in the same town? He is bound to see them, seeing you are such good friends with this lesbian couple.

Can he afford to pay child support to his other child/children? The payments could get pretty big over time. Less money for your children.

I would rather a natural mating with a sperm donor if I was going to produce a baby. A condom full of spunk sounds too clinical, with no cuddling at conception. It might be harder for me to bond at birth.

I guess the lesbian couple will love and kiss each other to give some meaning to the insemination. I suggest you do the same to him when you milk his semen, so it becomes an donation wrapped in love.

this is interesting way to get pregnant, with someone they know. I thought lesbians picked a up drunk guy at the pub for a quickie to get a shot of cream. that way no one ever knew where the baby come from.

Evita, I guess by now the deed is done.

I like the way you described in incredible detail when you asked your question. The mind picture is staggering - most people would be too stunned to know how to reply.

The two lesbians will be really grateful to you both if you give them a family.

I think you will all become great friends, and this could mean four in a bed, and you tasting bi - because you are so willing to support your husband.

If he is getting some fun, then he won't stop you.

My mind is boggled, I can't think of an answer except that if you go through with it, then DON'T GET JEALOUS LATER ON.

He will see his (child/children) and form a powerful attachment to the mother raising it/them without a husband. He will want to know if the child/children is/are sick.

He emotionally can't stop this happening, and he will find it almost impossible to not slide his penis into the vagina of the mother at some point in time - it is a "sub-conscious thankyou" to the mother bringing up his child.

Some lesbians are men-haters, but these two are a "very nice lesbian couple" (your words) and once they have a baby, motherhood paternal instincts will make them "even nicer".

Your husband will have two families and you need to realise very clearly that YOU MUST ALLOW HIM the opportunity to speed a lot of time with his other children (without you enforcing timetables).

Things will work well, if you AGREE from day one, that your husband can have loving sex with ALL the mothers of his children, not just you.

If the thought of this scares you (or will make you angry with jealousy), then DON'T DONATE SPERM TO A COUPLE YOU KNOW.

If a man knows the lady who gets his sperm, then it is impossible for him not to want to be part of the child's life, and from time-to-time hold the mother in his arms.

Your choice, so don't say no one warned you what to expect.

Lessies should get drunk at a pub 200 miles away, at least their baby will be made by natural fucking. Dozens of guys would take advantage of a drunk lessie who lifts up her frock to show she has no knickers on underneath.

She can rip the condom so the sperm gets out, or she pull it off and insist on bare back riding once the guy is in a hot mood.

Sex is a natural thing, it should not be pre-meditated like "painting by numbers".

Having a baby is easy to arrange by a quick chat at the pub. A Lessie does not have to be too particular about the baby being of Einstein intelligence, if she wants the joys of motherhood enough.

I agree that Lesbians should be able to be mothers.

I agree that the easiest way to get preggie, is to get a guy to ride bareback at your fertile time - especially on the day your temperature jumps to indicate ovulation

But if you are getting financial aid, then if you say who the baby's father is, then he will have to pay child support whether he wants to or not.

yes i suspose lesbians could get drunk at a pub and get a fuck without a rubber on, and not say they are lesbians, and also they could say it is safe time to ride bareback. but real father would not be known and a kid would really want to know his dad later on.

do lesbians really do this stuff ????????????????????????????

i must b living in the tenth century, i am gob smacked, cant u be locked up in goal for talking like this. i am scared and getting offf this website. tommorrow i willl take hardrive and replace it b4 anyone finds out and tells authorites. i could get stones thrown at my head for reading this.

must b lesbians everywhere. i thought only a few per thousand but i must b wrong. suspose they are sort of underground and are just coming out these days to swell numbers.

not sure about gay men having children to look after, but lesbians okay

I know lesbians who couldnt stand for a penis to be in them. If they were going to try to get pregnant, they would have to transfer it into their vagina by the condom or something like that. I know of one instance where they had a guy (friend) in the next bedroom and he masterbated into the condom and one of the lesbians was waiting nude on the bed in the other room. The other lesbian transfered it and cut the end of the condom and squeezed it into her. The last I knew, it had not worked yet.

i hope they keep trying until she is preggie with child - and maybe the (friend) will be nice enough (and caring enough) to give the lesbian couple a complete family of as many children as they desire. That would be so nice of him (and show he VALUES THEIR FRIENDSHIP).

Lesbians are God's children too. If God did not like lesbians, he would not have invented them.

If you want to go to Heaven one day, then you have to prove to God that you treat all types of people with respect even if they have different skin colour or beliefs.

Males are the inferior sex, and should be obedient to the wishes of a fertile female wanting to have a baby.

A woman knows when nature is calling her to have a baby, and guys should not hesitate to hand over sperm to help another human being.

Willing pussy slit + sperm = wanted baby.

Say "yes" to your b/friend giving his sperm to the couple. It is like a donation of blood to keep a person alive in hospital. A sperm donation will keep a couple "alive in their hearts".

Each guy is able to produce enough sperm in his lifetime to make 6 million babies if it was all extracted daily at a sperm bank, so it is not like your b/f is going to miss it.

I would help a lesbian couple in a heart beat. I helped a nice couple with two children in Mexico before moving to the UK to live. I get photos every year.

kent, you sound like u r a submissive guy kinda like a cuckold and told whot 2 do every day. u don't sound like a man at all. sorry life is stamping on your manhood so u r not able to say no to a girl milking the sperm from yyour penis when she wants it for her lesbian friend. hope your life gets better soon/

should u charge 4 the sperm, milk u have to pay 4 in supermarket.
watch out for child payments and alimony bcause u r the father and if that is disclosed, u will have 2 pay regularly quite a lot to raise child even if u never see it again.

Suspose lesbians have desires 4 kids like normal people, i don't care how they get the sperm as long as they don't neglect the kids born from it. Two caring mothers is better than an abusive marriage. That is my sixpence of comment.