I get sex a couple of times per month, but this is not as much as I want.
How many times per month should I get to make myself contented ?
Can us girls mentally adjust our minds to say two times is "okay" ?
I feel on a high for a few days after sex, but if I have not had a fuck for quite a while, I am more likely to argue with my friends over stupid things.
To give you an example, last week my best friend and I (she does not get much sex either) were talking, and next we were fighting on the floor like fury and we ended up hating each other for about three days, until we said "sorry". I have a sore shoulder still, and she a black eye !!
We talked about it this week, and all we can think is that we are suffering from "sexual insufficiency" or more plainly, NOT ENOUGH FUCKING ! ! ! We feel we are missing out big time, and it is affecting our personalities.
Neither of us have a temper, well....we thought we didn't until last week...but we have the aches and pains to show we are wrong.
I am terified about losing my friendship with my best friend, and I feel sure it is definitely caused by too little sex.
So does anyone agree I need more sex, or do I have a hidden fault in my brain which needs professional help before I hurt someone ?
If you want to have hot sex, then flirt and chase a girl who belongs to another guy. When he notices what is happening, you and him will both have a spontaneous surge in your daily volume of sperm in the prostrate gland.
It is called competition reaction, and in nature it happens to animals all the time as they fight to be the "dominant bull lover". The winner is in charge of all the females, and fighting other males to keep them at bay, gives him an enormous supply of sperm to fertilise all these females he "owns".
Two human males can have the same reaction with their sperm. The guy who is trying to stop a "takeover" of his girlfriend, will fire huge quantities of sperm into his girlfriend's vagina to overwhelm any sperm that may be there from the lover making a challenge. It is nature at its best.
And girls get both excited and scared, when two guys are fighting over them. If the stranger wins the fight, a new penis will enter her sacred spaces. She hopes her boyfriend does not lose, but at the same time, she is excited about what it might be like to be fucked by this stranger seeking new thrills.
She is the prize for the winner of the fight, and both guys think it is a worthy prize to claim. One is defending and the other attacking. The harder he defends, the more valuable the prize becomes in the eyes of the attacker. It is obviously very valuable if it is defended so strongly.
When the battle is over, the prize can be "enjoyed and appreciated" while the thrill of victory is rushing through the veins.
The girls emotions are on knife edge as her fear/excitement are ramped up.
A battle isn't won in a few seconds, the one with the upper hand keeps changing, as tense emtional moments pass by.
How will she feel if her boyfriend loses, how will she feel if the winner sweeps her up into his arms, and on to his white horse, and gallops off to his castle to ravish her and make her his own ?
THIS STORY HAS MIND PICTURES - this is how a guy should talk to a girl....not boring stuff about how to change a perished rubber in a carburetor (unless you are letting her drive the car with wind in her hair, and you are taking her to a secret location in nature to walk nude amongst the trees for an erotic jiggy-jigging and a teasing and a pleasing.
A guy can be strong and brave, but he has to flood her mind with mystery, surprises and fun things....her life is so boring without this magical stuff.
Remember, some girls have not been kissed lately...find out which ones are missing out....then claim them as yours - ask them out..and give them a glmpse of what it might be like if they were married to you...a wee glimpse is enough to get them to dream about you. That is how romance starts.
Don't always chase the most beautiful girls. The other girls are just as nice "inside" and the fun for you (a guy) is to discover this if you have nice intentions in your mind.
Girls can have as much sex as they desire, but too often they play silly games and play the lifestyle of a "nun" - how much sex? absolutely none (Nun).
91% of the guys a girl sees each day walking past on the street, would say "yes, yes, yes" to sex if she asked them.
Only 7% of girls would say "yes" if all the guys asked them on the street spontaneously.
97% of guys want more sex, but what they get depends on whether a girl is wanting any. Mostly they get "no way, you creep, fuckoff".
Every day would be great or even twice a day even better. That's the way it use to be when my wahine and I first started going out. Now after nearly 22 years I get it every second day without fail ,except when she's on the rag. I still would like it every day, but she's happy doing every second. Guys have a way higher sex drive than woman. I'll make an exception for a few of the wahine out there. I feel like I'm in a much better mood after I've been fucked. Sort of the same feeling I get when I leave the Tattoo shop. Aloha, J-man
You're using the wrong approach. You catch more bees with honey than you do with vinegar. You sweet talk a girl you don't assault her.Every girl you see on the street will jump in bed with just any man.
Treat a whore like a lady and you will have friend for life.
Don't get me wrong girls, That's what my mother told me.And it has stood me in good stead.
There is a country village in the world somewhere (saw it on TV documentary) that allows free love on one day a year for every one. If ladies get pregnant, then the husband accepts the baby as "very special" even though it is not his. Both husband and wife can get as many fucks as they like on that day, it is an incredible orgy of sexual delight. Apparently it lets out all the tension from people's lives, and every one looks forward to this annual event as very necessary. I suspose it is like the fertility dances of African tribes, and some women can get babies even though their husband has a low sperm count. Nature is balancing up life. For some lonely people it might be the only sex they get, and might encourage them to be less shy and find a partner.
You don't get into fist fights, due to lack of sex or every singleton would be in pub brawls.
I will openly admit though with sex your confidence is up and you feel all high etc....
However just because you're not getting the high doesn't mean that you end up getting in a fight with your "best friend".
Something is wrong within your relationship, generally if people have been friends for a long time they want to "break up" and "move on" to a diffrent friend much like in a relationship.
You realise though that you're not getting enough sex from your partner, talk to them about it explain how you feel and clearly state how unhappy it is making you.
On the other hand it's not always on them to initiate sex you can aswell, sexy lingery, nice hot bath with candles or if you're into other things then go for it.
The fact is they may'be on te other side thinking and feeling exactly the same way as yourself.
Communication is the key...
wish there was a way that all humans could have sex three or more times a week, so that there would be no more wars. what could be better than lots of spunk baths, kisses and cuddles and love words and smiles and hugs.
nun of my friends get enough sex but we NEED MORE. fuc the rules to stop us getting jiggy-jigs. i heard sex makes U smile in your sleep and your dreams get better. hope for more sex this year
yah....anyone help?becoz that happens to me sometimes.that,as if idont get enough sex im out of control of my temper.like i want to argue things...was that really normal?...keep posting!
It is a proven fact (and you proved it) that we get irratable and loose control more easily if we don't get enough sex. Even in married life it is common. If my wive gave me the old "I've got a headache" or "I'm too tired" too often. The next time she asked what I wanted for dinner I would give her a sarcatic "A PIECE OF ASS WOULD BE NICE." sex is necessaity to a balanced mind and body. That's why sex is called a 'Pandora's Box'. Not only can you never close the box---Once you have had it you can no longer go without it. I think that sex is without a doubt the strongest emotion we have---for good or bad.
The human animal is the only one of gods creatures that requires, uses and enjoys sex.
After all that, I can honestly say I'm sure glad it is that way.
Here's an idea...tell your husband, or boyfriend you want to have sex. That's one thing I can not stand is when my wife will tell me, "I was in the mood couple of days ago." There is nothing that pisses me off more then that. I or no other man is a mind reader. If you can't just come out and say you want it, then start rubbing his pecker or something. You doesn't take that long to get in the mood. If he doesn't ever want it it seems, and he is working late everynight then he is screwing the office girl and not you.
girls are quite ditty in the head with making up excuses why they don't want sex. In some cultures a wife provides another female for her husband to enjoy, if she is not up to sex herself.
Western culture does not do that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
most girls exaggerate how much sex they get
most guys would like a lot more sex than they get
lot of horny, unfulfilled people who have no one to sleep with at nite
Anonymous
(no login)
Re: You said it!
November 9 2007, 12:41 AM
Mr President did not get enough from his wife, so he strayed a bit b4 his wife found out and (smacked his pride).
====It was my understanding that Hillary would not give Oral Sex to the President - just a rumor
Anonymous
(no login)
Re: You said it!
November 12 2007, 4:21 PM
most girls exaggerate how much sex they get
most guys would like a lot more sex than they get
lot of horny, unfulfilled people who have no one to sleep with at nite
=======Not based on the women I know - Many who were married found their husbands no longer interested in sex after a while
Most of the women I know want more sex then the men there are with.
One EX GF of mine - She was married three times and each of her husbands were not much interested in sex with her.
Fantastic body - Great beauty and very sexy and great in bed
No clue what was wrong with those guys. I tried my best to make up for what she needed and did not get from them.
A Dude - if she was so hot, why did she become your "ex" ? Might she have given you all the sex you wanted, simply because she realised she had three failed marriages and she was getting desperate to make a relationship work ?
Friendship is one thing and sex is another. Sex is the human need to create a new person and to keep the species going though lust is satisfied by sex. Friendships can be for life but the two rarely mix e.g. your friend has a boyfriend that she adores, loves and perhaps has sex with, you come along and want some sex action with him. Ooops probable end of friendship!!!
Not a problem how a girl looks as long as she welcomes her husband home from a hard day's work with a smiley face, a foot massage and a beer to help him relax - and no moaning about all the things that went wrong in her day. When he gets home, he just does not want the sky to drop on his tired shoulders, so his wife just needs to make him feel she is ever so pleased to have him home, and a nice smelling dinner is nearly ready. She does not have to look like she has just stepped out of a glossy magazine. Her beauty is in her ability to make him feel so pleased he is with her, looks are minor even if they are the initial attraction he feels for her when they start dating.