I heard on the news that the average man around the world gets sex 103 times per year. Apparently, New Zealand men get the most sex (114 times per year), then Australians 108 times. Us Americans get only 105 fucks a year.
Global warming may be reducing the libido of northern hemisphere men. Perhaps we should all think seriously of living closer to the South Pole, or keeping regular supplies of Viagra.
I kept a diary last year, and I got myself only 39 fucks and 44 orgasms from 3 guys, so SOMEONE GOT the rest of my average SHARE.
Perhaps the guys don't think I am sexy enough with 33b breasts at 19. Maybe I will get more if I get married and sleep naked every night.
Wonder what it feel like to do it 114 times in one year?
OMG, i only had sex 3 times from a boy who asked me to go behind the bike sheds at school. Then word got around, and I was too embarrassed and angry that he told his our classmates about us. He could of had a lot more sex if he had be true to me.
guys are looking at me strange and i think they think i am a slut or something worse. I might have to change schools.
"I kept a diary last year, and I got myself only 39 fucks and 44 orgasms from 3 guys, so SOMEONE GOT the rest of my average SHARE.
Perhaps the guys don't think I am sexy enough with 33b breasts at 19. Maybe I will get more if I get married and sleep naked every night.
Wonder what it feel like to do it 114 times in one year?"
OK Based on the Kinsey report "Frequency of sex
18-29 year olds have sex an average of 112 times per year, 30-39 year olds an average of 86 times per year, and 40-49 year olds an average of 69 times per year (Piccinino, Mosher, 1998).
NOW Zealisa if you look at this report - you may be behind on frequency but you are Waaaaaayyyyy ahead on Orgasms - 44 "0"'s for 39 going all the way - i don't care for the f word but admit i use it on occasion.
I mean you are really off the map per the studies - So you may have done it less but got one hell of a lot more out of it based on the numbers in the reports and I looked at a few others.
I always say it is Quality not Quanity - Of course you can look forward to more and more but be careful cause if you work to hard at getting more partners they may COME with more then just giving you an "O" as in STD's.
First strike with Google brings up the famous Kinsey report with lots of details on who gets what and why or how
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/FAQ.html
I just hit my Google for a more up to date study but it does not break it down like Kinsey did. - Actually there are a number of surprises like Married with young children have more sex then single adults have.
This makes a wonderful read - If you like Jazz and are Jewish or don't believe in God you have more sex (may have)- You have to read the article
"Americans with the lowest income don't let the lack of money get in the way: this survey suggests that they have more sex to compensate. Joining them, but at the other extreme of the income curve, are those whose incomes are in the top one-tenth: they average about 5% more sexual frequency."
You need to understand the concept of the Double Standard.
Guys get points for bedding down a girl - The girl has points taken away from her for bedding down with a guy.
What you gave the Guy (Jerk) was just something to get him off.
He used you.
It really is all about waiting to be in a relationship - Learning trust - Sure the guy still can be a jerk - However just about every women knows that if you just give it away to anyone you can expect the guy to brag and tell his friends. That builds his ego.
People older then you go to bars and get drunk and will dive into bed with just about anyone.
So now look in the mirror and say - We all make mistrakes and please make no more - Dooooon't just give it away because you are not just going to loose a reputation - You can get infections on the street by going behind the shed with just anyone and in the future not be able to have kids -
Hey I am not trying to be hard on you - Shoot when I was your age I would have done just about anything to get some.
What you can do is hold your head up high and say the guy told a lie - If no pics or witness?
OK maybe someone else will disagree on telling the fib to cover your ass?
Also based on current web numbers lots of girls in your school are giving the guys BJ's or more so you are not alone-
I had sex about 37 times for last year (29 with my steady boyfriend, and 8 times behind his back for the thrill of it). We aren't planning to get married, so I don't see it as cheating. Actually, I think he is getting extra sex behind my back as well, but we have not talked about yet. Maybe this will help us to decide whether we are ready to be a couple long-term.
i am 13, and of course get no sex at all. my sister is 19 and gets it everytime she goes out, which is about every night. sometimes see her boyfriend's car rocking when they are parked. when she comes inside, she has a flush on her face, and i know they have been 'doing it' i sometimes notice that her panties in the linen basket are wet with white stuff...not sure if it is sperm because i have never seen real sperm, but i guess it is.
i don't think i can wait 6 more years for a boy to fuck me, but my sister will probably get married later this year if she keeps rocking the car so much
Deena you said "We aren't planning to get married, so I don't see it as cheating"
Sorry I disagree UNLESS both of you have agreed on what is called an "Open Relationship"
Marriage has nothing to do with what is cheating. Also consider that even if he uses a condom he can still transmit STD's to you as well as you doing that with him.
Now that said - Yes I was once married and I cheated - One long term partner outside my marriage - Will never do that again but do not regreat for one minute doing it - Other then the fact that you are forced to lie and make up just dumb stories to cover your ass.
So you are cheeting and if you are ok with that then such it be.
Now for 13 year old anon "i don't think i can wait 6 more years for a boy to fuck me, but my sister will probably get married later this year if she keeps rocking the car so much"
WHAT may work for your sister does not work for everyone else- Just spend some time looking at the replies in this forum and make sure you click on all the various sections of this forum.
If you start out too young you may be in for a lot of un-fun surprises - read about the young girl at school who gave in too soon to a jerk who is now telling all his friends and she thinks she may have to switch schools. Plus you sister may not be with child but that happens all the time - WITH Birth Control - I know for a fact because I had one and used a Condom.
And if you look carefully you will discover that usually you have to find a decent guy who respects you for it to be any good.
If you look at all the stories about the first times it's not very much fun for most.
With me you get no bull shit - I have no reason to lie to you about this.
Now by the way - I also could NOT wait for my first time - So I do understand how you feel - You figure it must be sooo good because everyone keeps talking about it right?
Yet if you look around at studies at how often people who are together - Married or in long term live in situations - Look at how little they really do IT - Why is that?
I could give you lots of reasons but you will read about most here- A few have not come up or I have not seen them posted yet.
this past year was the most ive ever had sex! from april-dec was over 250 times--at least once a day and sometimes 2 or 3 times when my boyfriend and i first met--before him in the past 10 years i would say i only had sex 15 times because i was single for 7 years! but my boyfriend is very young and i am alot older so that is why sex is so frequent!
I almost got a fuck at a party, but the guy was too drunk to get it up me. I sucked it and it went stiff, but it deflated when he tried to 'stick it in me'.
So my year was a fucking disaster.
I feel embarrassed posting next to a person who did it 250 times.
Ally may even be over the top on the number of times because she even says she may be working it too hard - not that too many times hurts the Vagina IF she is all ready for the guy.
Once just once that happened to me - Was 19 at the time and drank and drank - I got it up but at the very start before moving perhaps 1/4 inch in I came and deflated in a FLASH.
Embarrasing! One other time but need not bring up why for this thread and will save for the proper time.
Hey Drinking too much does not make for great sex.
How old are you? I bet young and just starting out on this kind of adventure.
One thing is for sure - If and I mean IF - You want to meet good guys they are out there -IF all you want is time in bed well thats around ever corner along with a lot of bugs you Don't want any part of.
This may sound crazy, but I actually kept track last year. 166 times for this Bra, still not enough for my liking. I would like to bang every single day. Maybe I should have hung on to that nimpho I use to go out with when I was younger. Aloha, J-man
LOL for a bit I thought maybe that was you saying you were no longer going to post here.
I also was with what everyone would call a Nympho for a full
3 1/2 years. She was ready for every morning + evening and multiple times on weekends.
For the most part she got what she wanted. On occasions I did suggest to her that she pull out the vibe from under our bed.
So was it over 1000 times a year for the three years? Yes and I have never thought about it that way. Did I run DRY on the weekends? To the point of not one drop when cumming.
ok guys....
keeping track...wow!!!!!
now that is wild.... is it to see if you can beat your record the next year????
LOL..
if I calculated correctly, it puts me in the about 260/yr category... not bad... would love love love more....
BUT that said.... a woman who loves sex with her man is not a nympho....
and for the younger posters here--
PLEASE REMEMBER ABOUT STDS....THEY ARE REAL, THEY ARE POSSIBLE, THEY CAN HAPPEN EVEN WITH CONDOMS SOMETIMES (IE HERPES )
AND THEY CAN BE PERMANENT... AND CHANGE YOUR LIVES FOR GOOD.
A FUCK IS FUN-- BUT A FUCK THAT GIVES YOU A STD--JUST SUCKS.
You feel embaressed because you are posting next to someone who's done it 250 times? WHY? Since when is it a competition? No-one is better or worse for how many times they've had sex. Quality not quantity:)
I have no idea how many times, I don't count, but working on weekly sex, I guess I have it about 130 times. I am in a long term relationship. When I was single, then it was feast or famine! If I had a boyfriend it was often bonk-fest on the weekends, and nothing during the week. When I was single I usually wasn't into one-nighters so it was nix for months at a time....a lot of everything else though (lol 'heavy petting), I get the feeling a great pash and a feel-up are a thing of the past these days?
Sorry Dude, I was referring more to the teens that seem to frequent this site. It's kind of all or nothing these days! Pity, because as you rather enticingly explained, a bit 'driver relaxation' can be a wonderful thing. LOL Though I am reminded of the movie Parenthood!
You're right though, all the same, while my comments weren't meant for me, the fact is, we tend to either have sex, or not. There isn't any of that fun playing any longer. Used to work for me, when I was still getting to know a guy, but I think we need to consider this again.....though of course, he's not going down on me, so I'll still miss that. LOL You think I am fixated on oral sex?
But if you are saying that now there is not much foreplay?
That would be a shame. For whatever reason I find that after I am in a long term relationship I get a lot less time to kiss then I want. Or I might be hanging around Breasts or Thighs or Belly and she decides to push it by pushing my head you know where.
Now you know me well enough to know Oral is actually my Fav- that is giving - but I am reminded - Once I was in about a 6 month relationship with a gal who NEVER let me put myself inside her Vagina - She said that was only for making babies.
She was Open to me putting it anywhere but what is normal- Nor could I imagine going into that "Other" place because I was not about to do that before going into her Vagina. Gots some great Breast Jobs - and of course LOTS of going down time.
Yet in the end I needed a more normal relationship - She even offered a 3 way with one of her GF's -
What she meant was vagina sex is for marriage when their is a loving couple with cash savings to bring up babies. She didn't want to risk being a solo parent if a condom broke and the guy disappeared abruptly.
You lost your chance to soar with the eagles and try out threesomes and taboo stuff. He who hesitates is lost.
She sounds as though she was "hot", but you were too young to use that to your advantage.
She literally said, "I can't risk getting pregnant, but I am game for ANYTHING else". Not many girls are that precocious.
I THINK in her case it was a hang up with her upbringing -religion - Yes I know that sounds odd because of her telling me she was open to a lot of things including how she wanted to also try sex with another girl. Her best GF had already said no thank you and only because it would have been cheating on her husband.
But you are correct about the commitment she would want to raise a child.
She said she was willing to try anything just once - Except of course for letting me put my Penis inside her Vagina - Unless that came with a wedding ring- She put no pressure on the subject of marriage!
Dude, you might be a really nice guy, but you have been in quite a few relationships with girls, and you keep moving on to a new girl.
If a girl wants a wedding ring before sex, then I respect her decision, because she has a plan for her ideal life. If I was to persist with my efforts to get a fuck out of her, then it would PROVE I DID NOT GIVE A STUFF ABOUT WHAT SHE WANTED FROM LIFE. I would be trying to break down her values in a NASTY way which would cause her a lot of unnecessary stress and anxiety.
If you love a girl, you will listen to what she is saying, rather than trying to get her drunk to get the 'fuck she does not want to give you'.
Girls know when they feel ready for sex....and not a day sooner.
"Dude, you might be a really nice guy, but you have been in quite a few relationships with girls, and you keep moving on to a new girl."
It is NOT exactly like that - but Yes many relationships - Now I am on the older side. One long term marriage and one 3 year live in relationship.
About 15 years ago I discovered that I had really broken a girls heart and said to myself I NEVER want to do that again. So after that I have made it a point to try and make a relationship work - However I do have one thing I sort of demand of myself.
If after a while in a new relationship I cannot say "I Love You" While making love - That tells me it is NOT going to happen and I need to end that relationship.
I can say this much - I remain friends with my ex's in most cases.
One disadvatage of dating older women - When menopause starts to set in IT CAN BE Difficult to remain in a relatioship.
Last night a friend who became a fire breathing dragon - Just friends even though we both admit we are attracted to each other - I was smart enough early on to recognize that it would never work as intimate partners.
She still has her periods and becomes a monster with PMS - And I can see she will be even worse as she approaches menopause.
Anyway I am not being defensive - 6 months here and 1 year there add up after a while. I am being more careful in my selection process. Getting to know the girl before even asking her out for the first date.
I have discovered some great ways to meet healthy attractive women so I do have a pool to select from. It requires being careful.
Oh how true it is. The other night I was thinking "she doesn't get wet like she used to." She used to be so wet I could hit her in the knee with my penis and I would score a goal.
i desided to love her up a little before I went down. We kissed for half and hour and she began shorting through her nose while we kissed. I put my hand between her legs and it was like old times. Now I spend the time I used to before I go down and give her three or four orgasms before we do the in and out as you say. She was her old wild self. Taking your time pays dividends.
As to frequency. There is an old joke about bean in a jar.
The first year your married put a bean in the jar for each piece you get. The second year start taking them out. SUPRISE it's going to take longer that a year.
When my wife was pregnant with our first She became extra horny. No threat of getting PG, no period, and an empty house. In two weeks we had sex 42 times and I thought that was something. I see we were behind the curve. Oh well---those days are gone--but not forgotten. And by the way we stopped because it wasn't fun anymore. It began to feel like a job.
are you for real girl?????????i was truly amazed to have known you're just 13 and here you are changing ideas and keep posting on this forum..you're real great girl!becoz i'm 36 and been married for 13 years and here...here alone on this forum that i opened up myself for topics like sex.OMG did i'm missing something?i think you're really smarter than me..how could i've been so naive...thanx for this forum,this help me a lot....keep posting!
How does everyone keep up with how much sex they've had??? I shall keep a diary from now on!!!
I'm guessing mynes about 70-100 a year, Arguements are fantastic in a "boring" long term relationship, as making up is so sexual, I broke up with my guy for about three months I don't think we left the bedroom for about 3 days ;) However after thats worn off it ends up just doing what each other wants and yada yada it's almost a set dance routine.
I doubt getting married will help you too much Zealisa as in some marriages people no longer need sex as often, they need them emotionally and as company.
However GO J-Man <--- just proof it sounds good.
I'd just like to add Zealisa n1 on the orgasms, I'm thinking out of the 8 Guys I've been with EVER 2 could actually make me orgasm :o So 44 out of 3 blokes is non too shabby....
Zealisa what exactly do you want from sex, do you think you want attention from a guy, a relationship or to just shag silly?
I need to go back to the days where we used to fumble about trying out new things, trying to work out what we liked.... *ah* :) May'be next time I shall pretend I don't know what I'm doing and tell him to get crap, think it will work?
yah...you're right there gal.better to have few top quality fucs a year rather than lots of it that dont have much enjoyment....so as to say...becoz my huby work abroad and come home after a year and spend vacation for a month.and it's so exciting and really satisfying.so..i dont care how many fucs do i have in a year....could it be just 10x as long as it is the best and top quality kind of sex..i'd rather go for it...keep posting!
10x no way i would need at least 3 per week if i was married. i thought all a married man had to do was roll over in bed and stick his penis inside even if he was in a dream state. might as well be single if only once per month and then have several boyfriends who can come around for a 'night cap'
I can only tell you what I have run into with gals who were married and now are not - Many found the guys hot to trot before marriage and then after marriage the sex dropped off the map.
On surveys you can find on the net - this is a very common problem.
I know this can be true of women as well because I have a friend who takes pills for depression, which reduces her sex drive to almost zero and is a big problem for her boyfriend. It is just that I know so many women who tell the same story about getting married and then the love making becomes less and less around the 2nd and 3rd year.
So far this year to date I've banged my wahine 96 times. I put a little tick mark on my calender everytime we do the old in out, ya follow?. After reading this post I had to go and count those marks. Hey, after being with the same wahine for over two decades I'm still getting it good I figure. I would even do it more if she wanted too. I may beat last years number of 166 times. Hang Loose, J-man
j man u need to get in Guinnessss Boookk of Recordss for so much sex. fuck i am jealous. can i comne to yr island and get a abit from someomnee you know?/
Hey Bra, when you do the deed every second day, it adds up, ya follow? However there are times where we do it two or three days in row, which I like best,and what guy wouldn't? A good healthy sex life makes for a good happy and long lasting relationship. We both dig each other alot and the more sex the better I always say. When we were younger it was like every day and alot of the times twice a day, but I think that's the way it is when anyone starts going with a new partner. You could just come to our island to chill and check out all the hot looking wahine. Hang Loose, J-man
JM, ask your missus if u can try for 200 this year as you are sexually frustrated and need it more often. Accuse her of having a low sex drive if u have 2.
Then you can put a T-shirt on with the words "I got lucky 200 times in 2008".
Imagine how a virgin feels "I got no sex in 1999, 2000, 2001, 2002, 2003, 2004, 2005, 2006, 2007...... and 2008 is heading for a repeat".
Virgins should get extra welfare coupons to compensate, so they can get drunk and get picked up for a good time without any inhibitions to say "no" any more.
JM u r getting more sex than all the virgins in the world and their r at least a billion virgins who probably FEEL BEGLECTED by men.
JM u r a lucky blighter ( a fire lighter indeed). You must be able to light your missus's fire real good to get it every couple of days. Are you a Prince or sumthing?
I bet humans would get all the sex they wished for if the wearing of clothes was banned. Guys would be having erections down the street, and girls would be lining up spontaneously to get their share.
After reading all the problems young people have about tying to decide how to improve their sex life, I can understand why sum guys find it much easier to visit a prostitute and hand the money over. It would be cheaper in the long run that having a wife who is rationing her pussy.
I'm married and do love my husband, so I have only one guy a year. As for orgasms I just can't count them. And as for fucks it's rather difficult to count them too. Two years ago my husband had problems with erections and we had sex only one-two times a month. Then he treated by Extagen and now we do it several times a week. So 100 times a year is our minimum.
Does Extagen really help to solve these problems? My DH successfully uses it to enlarge his p***s (he increases its length on about an inch). I didn't know that this drug increases sex drive too.
"Penis enlargement pills" or ointments are commonly offered over the Internet. Analyses performed by Flora Research of California and by the University of Maryland have uncovered harmful contaminants in a number of "penis enlargement" pills. Contaminants found included mold, yeast, dangerous E. coli bacteria, pesticides, and lead.[4] Dr. Michael Donnenberg of the University of Maryland has described herbal pills marketed as having "heavy fecal contamination", possibly from animals grazing near the plants harvested for herbal ingredients.[5] There may however be a placebo effect i.e. a psychological effect of making the user think he has a larger penis, and increasing his confidence, when there is no actual change to his penis size.[6] Some people have also reported that such pills make them feel sexually aroused, and give them harder erections, but again, without any actual growth of the penis."
Wikipedia is not the "last word" on any subject - However looking for one legit report of "Growth" - I cannot find a single one.
Years ago there were all kinds of ads for pills for women to expand breast size - Perhaps there still are? None none of the herbal preparations did ANYTHING - Perhaps all they did was take the same herbs for Breasts that did nothing and re-label and market them as Penis pills?
Biggest problem with cheap pills on the internet, is QUALITY and HYGIENE CONTAMINATION ISSUES. Some e-coli bacteria and other seriously poisoness chemicals in the wrong balance for the blood. Food safety is low priority for many herbal products, and many deaths and serious illnesses have been caused by "fast buck merchants" re-packing from bulk supplies with unwashed hands, dripping ceilings, arsenic and lead flakes and poor storage conditions. Herbal pills are not monitored by the FDA. Look what is happening in China, and it is not just milk powder causing kidney stones and death or near-death experiences.Don't buy viagra and other products unless you have proof of the quality control standards and independent certification of what is ACTUALLY in the pills.
I think those who live in big cities fuck rarer than those who live in province because of ecology. I live in LA and had to take extagen to be able to have sex twice a week. I think I have problems with my health because of living in a big city.
I think that those ppl photo penises are insane or try to sell something. I don't want to photo my penis because it's not important for me whether you believe that extagen increased my penis. It's strange for me. Please don't believe me, I don't care.
I took extagen to improve erection, but I noticed that my penis became a little bit longer. I didn't measure it. It's not interesting for me, because I have a normal size.
"extagen made your penis longer"
How many months did it take to get an increase in length?
Did your penis go smaller again when you stopped taking extagen?
Is a penis more able to make a girl feel better in bed if it is an inch longer? Would two extra inches be even better? I wonder coz my guy is 5.2 inches long, would 6 or 7 b better?
Turning the tables for a moment. Would more inches of breast feel and or look better?
From my experience the answer is no - I am right on the mark for exactly average in size and sure from the perspective of being at nude beach's or resorts on occasion I would like to look larger.
So a question for kezzia. When he is inside you, do you wish it was larger and if so why?
Gala I know use their finger when they play with themselves - a few do not want anything inside and others use toys. Usually the toys are larger then I am.
Oh and actually I prefer smaller rather then larger breasts but I do look at Larger and enjoy whatever comes my way. Small or large they are all Good!!!
It feels good in me and I usually have an orgasm by his penis, but I wonder whether bigger would make it even better. He cums three times over about two hours, and he usually licks me off several times as well as his penis orgasm he gives me. I am not complaining, just wonder !
I see your point - Its just curiosity. I was as well curious re breasts that suckered me in after working with a model at a show for 4 days in a row. She dressed in a way to pull in clients.
I just had to get my hands on them. Then I was stuck with them for one long weekend and I could not wait to get home. She even told me that her ex said it was the only good thing about her. She however was very sweet...just not very bright!
kezzia, my bf has increased his organ on about an inch by Extagen and exercises. Our sex is much better now, because his penis is thicker too and I feel him better, it’s rather easy for me to orgasm now.
My gf swears she cums easier after I have increased my willy. She wants to buy me another one course of Extagen. I don't know, I think I'm all right now…
I was married for 25 years.We had sex eveyday ,somtimes three times a day.(365x25) We had three children and didn't slow down.She left me for her boss and marries him.That was six years ago.I have'nt been with a woman since.I go out, have fun, but my intrest in woman for sex is waning.I don't really need them.I can please myself and save alot of heartake and save money as well.But I do like dating ,so maybe somday I'll let another woman in my life if she can be honest and not play those lieing games they like so much. You don't need sex to live,You need friendship in life more. (every betrayal ,begins with trust)
I am a 50 year old, twice divorced guy, who has always enjoyed sex -- married and single.
I definitely had more sex when I was married (total of 18 years). My average when married was maybe 4 or 5 times a week, with extra on weekends and vacations. That nets out to over 250 times a year -- give or take a few of course.
As a single divorced man once in my late 30's and now in my early 50's, there is plenty of opportunity for sex, but it's just not as frequent when I'm not sharing a bed with a sexy woman.
Right now I live alone but date lots, and I would say that I do it maybe 75 to 100 times a year. If I was living with a woman full-time again, the average would go back up again.
I know married friends who have to "beg" their wives for sex. That is ridiculous to me. Obviously either they married the wrong woman or are not exciting the woman they have sufficiently.
Per my note above...it's not about "getting it". It's all about being in synch with a partner in terms of timing and how to best please her. Sometimes it's rocking sex, other times it's touching and licking. It's all sex though.