I am jealous of several of my friends having boyfriends with large cocks, and I would like one too. But I don't want to date guy after guy and then discover their cocks are too small.
Is it acceptible to ask guys their cock size, or would it upset their pride?
I think if you want what you want you have to find a good way to locate it.
Time for you to become a member of nude resorts. I think you already know the problem you will have finding a nice guy. Your search is limited to a small percentage of the population unless you look at areas of the world where the men are known for being larger in size. As luck will have it you may find a nice guy who is equipped as you desire and then discover that for him your thighs are to large our to thin and breasts are too large or too small etc etc.
I am not putting your needs down - One should be able to get what one wants/needs -
So do you ask on the first date? People put what they are looking for in personal ads -
You could do this - keep asking girls you meet who are divorced or now have ex's, why the relationship ended. I know several women who found their guys just too large for their mouth or vagina and I have a friend who has trouble finding women who like what he has.
But no I don't think you want to qualify a guy before he even takes you out on a first date because word is going to get around and you will end up with a reputation you do not need.
Or maybe others here will say that is what you need so guys come to you?
.. or you could drop the whole thing together. SERIOUSLY! men and women were intended to marry, have children, populate the earth and grow old and grey together! Relationships and sex are all taken for granted these days. So my point? Find someoone you like, quit the immoral lifestyle and appreciate him for what he is- a man that loves you... big cock, small cock, whatever.
i think u could ask a trusted friend 2 help u. i c no reason why you should not have a big cock 2 fuck you. don't settle for second best if your heart is set on a big cock. you will only get frustrated and stray 2 adultery later on.
Last I looked there were over 50,000 Polygamous marriages in Utah and Arizona. Men with multiple wives.
She needs to find the Bizarro side of this where women can have multiple husbands and society is ok with it.
I side with her need because she has it and its not going to go away. It dims her chances to find a nice guy because its so limiting. Never the less its a lot like a guy who wants bug ones and ends up with small breasts - He is always going to have his eyes out. Of course she might make him happy in so many other ways, yet he will still always wish for more.
These days a plastic Doc can fix the women to fit the guys needs - and I hate Plastic anything - And there are Docs out there that can add fat to a Penis - If they can make them for sex change operations then maybe she can find the nice guy with a regular one and have the money banked to get him - Well Ouch
anyway pre coffee and after a long night out so what you want LoL
go 2 a nudist colony 2 c big cocks. i did and was surprised and blushed a lot, but felt i could not take off my bikini. but i got 2 c what i had not seen b4. recommend it.
I suggested the nudist colony idea to the person who set this up as a topic.
Of course what you see soft may not tell you much about how long or thick it gets when hard.
At the beach mine might be a fraction of what it will become - depends on the water temp and the breeze.
I have a friend and she first saw a guys equipment before they went on the first date - skinny dipping party. She was disappointed because it remained the same size and only became harder.
what are statistics like for guys having more sex per week if they have multiple wives? - might be a solution for guys who don't get enough sex because of their wife not wanting much sex.
The best possible way for anyone to get OMG cock is to look out for the guys who are tall and well built (not fat). There is a very big possibility that a guy who is huge has got a huge cock too, though it is not be guaranteed.The chances are error will always be there.
There will be any number of people out there who will not agree with my theory but if a huge guy is more likely to have huge hands, face, chest, ears, nose, mouth, legs and so on as compared to small guy then there is always a great likelyhood that the huge guy has got a huge cock too.
I agree, I dated a very nicely built 6ft 3/4 chap and he had the biggest cock I've ever seen....
I didnt have any sexual contact with him, he did it for a joke at a party and I was shocked and didn't wanan go there.
Although it looked massive I don;t feel it would of been satisfying. I have a great guy with a bit larger than average cock and hes FANTASTIC in bed... So I'm more than happy.
Find a guy who is good in bed not just coz he has a big cock!
bleh - u r a chicken, u might have liked that big cock if u had not been 2 scared 2 try it. you r letting the grass grow under your feet instead of seizing opportunities for hotting up your sex life.
Yeh chicken from having great sex! Which I might add am getting, so not really....
I'm a bit dubious of big cocks anyway they'll split me in half before I even thought of it as enjoyable.
I'd also like to keep my vagina in shape, so when child birth comes I do actually have time to go through labour before it just drops out before my very own eyes. :p
oh MEOW!
By the way no one has actually stated why a big cock will "hotten" up a (my) sex life. I have and have had great sex. I don't see how a big cock would make it anymore enjoyable except, for slitting me open and whacking my cervix which I HATE! Why don't you fuck a diffrent race who enjoys doing lots of hanky panky diffrent stuff, theres loads of ways to hotten up your sex life I just don't think a big cock is one of them.
Also the reasoning why I didn't fuck the guy (fullstop) was because he was an immature pratt, surely the whole pulling trousers down at a party thing implied such a thing???
I am not really sure what the largest was - I mean in my hands 42 DDD'S Maybe or could be 42 D's
What I am sure of is - They do look nice hanging out in a dress- they do get attention.
However do they kick up the in the bedroom experience? Not from my experience. As a very young kid I had Aunts who would smother me with hugs - when your 6 years old you do not want to be fighting for breath. I would hide when those Aunts came over LOL
I think it works the same way with a large Penis - I know girls who tell me they really like to see it for excitement but the idea of putting it in their mouth gives them a mental gag reflex.
A couple of friends who have been with very large ones tell me that is what they need. One I met at an event and was open to spending the night with me - early on she told me she liked them huge- since I am only average I did not take her up on her offer because who needs to see disappointment, nor was I about to tell her why.
Yet later with a friend who pushed me to try a relationship with her - I backed away because I could see that no matter how hot she was and she sure was- it would never work - later to learn as just good/great friends with her - She liked them huge - so I told her - good thing we did not connect because I am just average.
One other thing I remember about her - I moved and lost contact with her - She had 38DD's and we talked about her issues with back problems etc - She had zero feeling in her nipples so breast play for her was just not something that did anything for her- Would have been a very bad match between us.
I was at a student booze party once, and a $500 prize was put up for the weirdest thing a student could do. Lots of things were tried and it got down to a guy and a girl who both stripped naked to try and win. Then the girl defecated on the floor while everyone said "yuk", but the guy was so desperate for the $500 that he bent over and ate several mouthfuls of shit.
The girl wasn't going there, so the guy got the money.
The students errupted in applause.......yuk,yuk, yuk !!!!!! how gross ???
They guy said, "I needed the money quite desperately as my rent is overdue".
Made me wonder whether everyone has a price, at a point when the money is too big to turn down, and the embarrassment goes away in time.
What could the girl have done to better eating shit ?
Re: OMG cocks: I have been with men with those. The sex can be quite intense. But i found that because it is so intense, its a lot more effort- which means having sex is more of an event. Its a lot harder to just go at it all the time becuause you actually need to heal or sort of get back to normal. ANd absolutely, sucking on a large penis can take a lot of work! That sounds awful. I mean, its just that I found that I would rather have more sex, more variety- sometimes intense-sometimes gentle etc...--and a normal sized penis, than Epic sex once a week that practically does you in, with a huge penis. And enjoying sucking as I do, my jaws were often very sore due to the size issue. I went from mongo-man to thin and average. it took just a few times and I adjusted and came to enjoy it more. We had more sex, more fun, more love-making, and I could walk again, too!
I've noticed that a lot of the men with the very large penis's are sometimes more confident and sometimes thats good- sometimes bad. One shouldnt rest on ones' laurels-- shouldn't assume that a big dick automatically means no finesse is needed.
First GF after a long term marriage - Flight attendant - So perfect if one judges on looks - in the end she was really messed up but hey it was my first GF post the divorce.
So she says to me just before I start to enter her - She says she takes a long time to cum. Now she also would NOT let me go down on her. The only girl I have been with that did not want that nor was I about to discuss it with her - I was ready to take what I could get and she was a knock out.
So I said take as long as you need. She needed at least 20- 25 mins and I knew I was good for as long as it was going to take her.
Of course back when I was 17 I was good for maybe 3 or 4 mins and once came just as I touched her opening.
Look Honey, if a big cock is so fucking important to u, then just ask guys straight out how big their cocks are. The word will get around that you are chasing big cock, and guys will admire your courage to ask for what you believe you need.
yes, just ask the guys if they mind if u have a feel of their cocks. If they say it is okay, then rub their cock until it squirts out sperm into their underpants. if it is a big cock, then u can suck it and drink it as a health drink (mentioned by someone else). that way u will know pretty quick. then a few hours later try another guy if u need a bigger cock. it is a numbers game, keep asking until you get what you like, and some guys will tell u honestly who has the big cocks amongst their friends.
big thing - get what u need and dream about. guys may talk a bit but the important thing is to GET THE COCK THAT PLEASES U.
GOOD LUCK you horny lady, i admire your clarity of what u need.
you look down and often see a frightfull package in the groin area, so you can see "sometimes" what your getting.
Funnily enough, today on the tube (in London) I was staring at a guy who looked alot like a celeb looking him up and down and OMG he had a hugeeee package!
I think my eyes musta nearly popped out!!!
My boyfriend is soooo gonna kill me :)))
I only had a few moments yesterday to look in on topics and read a reply from you about sharing details of ex's. Someone last night seems to have replied to pages of past posts so I don't know where that is.
Yes I understand why you find it weird or difficult and it can cause problems when a girl tells the guy about what his ex's were like in bed or the other way around.
I think it largely depends on the specific situation - We have to be very comfortable in our current relationship or just not give a damn.
So for instance when I was in the affair with the married gal and I just had to know how his equipment compared to mine. She said well I get to do something with you I cannot do with him. She could give me deep throat which is something she wanted to be able to do - with him no way. So it was sort of a back handed compliment but of course that told me I was smaller then he was.
But I agree with you about not needing to know the details - as someone else said - the information can be titillating if presented in the right way.
How would you respond if a guy came up to you and said, "Do you shave your pussy? I only fuck girl who shave." Now that we have things in perspective. Sure you can ask a guy about his package. Every guy I have known who was hung was more than willing to brag about the size and his sexual prowess. Maybe out of a room of ten you might find one and he may be a lier. The other thing is that once you ask these ten guy and don't score you'r shot down for the night. Men or women don't like to be second choise. When I was single I went out looking for a Blonde haired blue eyed girl, 5'1"-5'2" 85-90 pounds, a great sence of humor and ready to fuck. How many times do you think I scored.
Like A Dude said, "One should be able to get what one wants/needs." BUT you have narrowed your chances for sex to a small percentage of men. I think A Dude said that the average man packs 6-6.5". I like to use 5.5 as the bottom number cuz that's where I was.(hope you don't mind the quotes A Dude)
The few guys I have known who were in the OMG class by self proclamation not from my personal experiance were egotistical selfcentered assholes. They were so impressed with the size of thier cock that they thought that all they had to do to get layed was say "I got the biggest cock you ever seed."(sic)That doesn't mean there aren't nice guys with an OMG. But that narrows the field even more.
Think of the phyical part of it. My niece was fucking two OMG dick from 12-18. She married one (OMG) but continued fuck him and his best friend(the other OMG). She ended up having a histerectomy at 32. Her womb was torn from its mount (for want of a better word.) You can say, So what? She enjoyed those OMG cocks for 20 years.I guess that's one way of looking at it.
In conclusion,I'd love to have another inch or two but not an OMG.I'd rather tickle you to death than gore you.
Good luck in you quest. I'm sure we'll see you posting that you'r not getting enough sex.
Maybe I'm just jealous,
Old Jim
Thats sooo CUTE!
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You know, if you are blind, you rely on your other senses more and so they are very developed. If you aren't the most physically attractive, maybe you develope your mind and personality more. If a man doesn't have the OMG cock, he just might be the best lover you'll ever have.
What I look at when I visually peruse a man's body from across the room? His wrist and the way it leads into his hand. There is a certain type of hand that I just love. ANd the timber of his voice-- so that if I were resting my head on his chest and he spoke, I would feel safe and relaxed.
His walk or his gait. The way he moves. IS he stiff and abrupt, slumped? or smooth ,relaxed and confident? And sure, his eyes, his general appearance,etc...
If he had all those wonderful attributes (and more along the lines of personality etc...) and a smallish penis, but was a good lover? I would not lose interest.
Speaking of blind- here's a little fantasy of mine: I have never dated a blind man but it turns me on to imagine how adept he would be (in my fantasy) at touching me and smelling me and tasting me. The idea of him exploring me just by touch and not with his eyes is yummy. I love eyes. I love looking into them and watching and being watched etc... But this is a different thing. ANds its different from the blindfold thing- unless you blindfolded the guy before you ever met so that his first encounter with you was without having seen you. Of course I guess thats the experience some people have when they pick up people at pubs after many drinks!
There are special lenses made in Japan. Brand name is Kaya or something. You can mounth to a camera and you can see anyone like naked with that lens. You may try. Price is around 160-200 US$ as far as I remember from web site.
You are jealous of something that has very little true value. A large penis says nothing about a fellow's sexual sophistication or his ability to get you off.
Here's what's important about a man:
* Can he thrill your clit with his fingers?
* Can he worship your pussy with his face, lips, and tongue?
* Is quite willing to do 20-30+ minutes of foreplay before entering you?
* Does he begin with slow shallow strokes?
* Does he delay going all the way in until you are really and truly wet?
* Can he delay coming until you have come at least 3 times?
A long penis is completely irrelevant to all of the above. After you've given birth, you may value a penis with an ample diameter. But that is not what people seem to have in mind when they say "size queen."
Fixating on cock size is one of the many things about gay men that are comical.
If you persist in wanting that "special" penis, forget long dong. Go for uncut instead. Some ladies swear by it.
I just read the series of posts you replied too. On this one notice that the poster "Honey" never returned for comment to our comments.
Now the fact is there are many out there - Guys who get turned on by large breasts and they look for that in a partner.
So I think its only fair for a gal who for whatever reason wants or needs a large Penis to have what she wants. It may be a visual turn on or the feeling of being full to the max. I have met several girls over the years who claim they are only satisfied IF they have a huge one inside them.
Reminds me of a comment made by a female doctor who practices at John Hopkins hospital. She is a Urologist and said the one advantage she has over men is - Her fingers are smaller and most men find that more comfortable for the prostate exam. I would find that an advantage myself. Most men hate that rectal exam and the smaller finger would perhaps make that few seconds more comfortable at least in my mind if no where else.
You should not judge a guy by his cock size. It's not his fault. Judge him by who he is. Would you rather have a cheating husband with a large cock, or a nice friendly husband with a medium cock?
Like women with big boobs, I assume a whopper of a cock can be an intresting
experience.
However, most experienced women I know tell me that huge cocks can be fun to marvel at but
are rarely enjoyable sexually.Of course, I also hear that tiny cocks can be an issue as well.
Two key points to keep in mind about cock size.
1) Judge size whne erect. Size increase between non-erect and erect varies incredibly. Some average sized one can get quite big when aroused.
2) Most importantly, as the saying goes.."it's not the meat, it's the motion". With experience you will undoubtedly have your best sex (including most intense orgasms), with a good lover....more likely to be average than huge.
PS - Lest you think I'm writing this with any personal insecurities....I'm well above average down there.
I was married to a man for seven years who had the biggest cock I've ever seen. He was handsome, in great shape too. Sometimes it really hurt, mostly it was OK; it was good sex the best of times. Never great.
I have been with other large men, and the same was true.
The most incredible lover I've ever had was perfect in size. Not too big, not too small. Nice shaped, clean and hard. He gave me the strongest orgasms over and over. He was very generous as a lover; very skilled in licking me, touching properly, giving my nipples attention, everything really.
Darling, a huge cock has no relationship to huge orgasms and great sex.
I have a lady friend who was married at 19 to another friend of mine who has a massive cock. After only a few years of marriage she divorced him and left with another guy. I asked her what had caused the divorce and I was told that he couldnt control himself when they were having sex and he would hurt her with deep thrusts. She said that even after a few years it still hurt too much. She also clued me in on the big cock stories and how women are supposed to like it. According to her some women do like it rough but she hated it and often would be bleeding after he got done. She said that her new man is just about six inches and it is great, no more banging the cervix. She said her moans in the bedroom are not from pain now,just pleasure.
When I was in college my bf had a very big one and I was always bragging to my friends that I was having the greatest sex.
One night I hooked up with a guy I had always had a crush on. He was really fun and comfortable, and it was fantastic sex. He knew all the right buttons to push. In the morning I looked over at him asleep and realized his penis was not huge at all. It looked really sexy though. I had not even thought about it because it felt big inside.
Now when I meet a guy I don't think about if he is huge or not. I wonder if he can make me comfortable and really relaxed, and if he has a nice one that fits well and if he knows how to push himself up on top of me to hit my clit just right, if is good with his tongue and fingers, if his body feels right against me, if he smells and tastes good, if he knows the differencce between fucking and making love and when to do each and especially if he cares about my pleasure ande satisfaction as much as his own.
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Re: How can I find a nice guy with an OMG cock ?
December 10 2008, 11:27 AM
whot about the 14 inch cocks in Literotica stories, are they not meant to make a women feel like she has won the Lottery?
==============I do not buy stories that include a penis that is beyond the charts. None of the studies over they years have included a single Penis at 14 inches.
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Re: How can I find a nice guy with an OMG cock ?
December 10 2008, 11:33 AM
a girl can't have an orgasm if she is feeling tense from fear of being hurt inside by a cock that is "way too big". that is what i find.
==============I suspect that is usually the case. However just for the record - Cases of Rape report Orgasm.
You can find discussions about this by Psychologists, in books and on the web.
Just once I was with a GF that woke me up giving me a hand job. I should have stopped her and asked her to use some lotion. She ended up rubbing "off" some skin which took a week or more to heal. I did come while in pain JUST To get it over with. NOT Easy and my fault for not communication my needs.