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Would you have sex if your partner is pregnant or menstruating

April 27 2008 at 2:51 PM
Anonymous  (no login)

Interested to know if
a) men would make love during either/both these occurences
b) women would want men to have sex or make love during either or both of these situations.

I understand from what I have read on other sites some men are put off by the sight and smell of their partners menses

 
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A Dude
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Red River Valley

April 27 2008, 7:54 PM 

Never got in my way.

Different aroma yet once I had no clue until the AM when I looked in mirror and saw dried blood on my face and sheets were messed up.

The only downside of making love from my experience is tampons!

Removing one just before making love means a dry entrance.

 
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Anonymous
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Re: Red River Valley

April 30 2008, 5:26 PM 

some guys have hangups about periods, it scares them because they have not been told better at school

if a girl wants sex at that time, take the opportunity she presents you. there are lots of other guys who won't be so fussy.

if your cock is not in her when she wants sex, another guy might take her for his wife and you will be left wondering what happened

 
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Re: Red River Valley

July 20 2008, 5:33 PM 

religion told women for thousands of years that their bodies were dirty at menstruation, but doctors know now this is wrong. Sex should happen when a girl has a desire 4 it, because she instinctly feels what is right for her body.

sex is okay up to a few days b4 birth as long as it is gentle, caring and loving, and you use positions that are comfortable.

in some cultures, the wife sends her husband to a friend 4 sex on the days she is not feeling like sex

 
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kumen
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Re: Red River Valley

December 20 2008, 1:55 PM 

girls know when they want sex, some want close cuddling when they have their period, they will invite u if they are in the mood 4 it, but generally they feel out of sorts for a day or 2. try 2b understanding and help them all u can, so u will get lucky when she feels okay again. in shower good as blood washes away.

 
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Henry
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Re: Would you have sex if your partner is pregnant or menstruating

December 22 2008, 11:50 PM 


I suppose some guys are weird about periods and pregnancy for whatever reason.

Personally, I have found sex during menstruation to be a non-issue. A bit messy, but just go with it. Use a towel underneath or do it in the shower.

As for sex during pregnancy; that can be some of the best ever. Preganat women are extremely sexy with their swelling tummies and breasts.

In both situations the man needs to reassure the woman. make her feel confident and sexy and desired by showing how turned on she makes you. Once you pass that barrier, any fears disappear foever.

 
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Tammy
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Re: Would you have sex if your partner is pregnant or menstruating

December 23 2008, 2:06 AM 

There are no medical reasons to avoid sex during a period.

 
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swim, swim, swim

December 25 2008, 2:23 PM 

If a man has'nt swam the red before he just don,t like pussy. You have to take it any way the woman will give it to you. I never had but two kinds of pussy that is good and better pussy. Life just don't always give out the better stuff!!!

 
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Bianconn
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Re: swim, swim, swim

January 3 2009, 7:47 PM 

Big Research Trial about 20 years revealed that only 10% of woman objected to ses while having their period.

 
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John
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Would you have sex if your partner is pregnat or mentruating

November 30 2009, 9:54 AM 

Yes to both of these. I always had sex during one day of her period. Some times I was wearing a condom and her period started. I just took the condom off.A woman should have a salt douche. if she intends to have sex during her period.I always have a sanatary pad ready when I withdraw. Don't use tissue.She should have adouche after sex. She should wear a sanitary pad and not a tampon after sex during her period
In the early days of pregnancy sex is ok.In the last months choose a position like side by side rear entry. The woman should guide the penis in and you push it in slowly.In that position you can reach out and masterbate her clitoris. Start with slow stokes asking how she likes it .
Don't use violent strokes. I never went in more than about 2 inches. then again I had a pad ready to catch the sperm when I pulled out

 
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