Hello,

This may sound like a stupid question but I have a new girl friend . She had only one other partner before me and had sex only 2 times her whole life.

Anyway, when we have sex she is tight and when I give her oral sex her vaginal color (outer lips) are pink. She told me that if a girl has sex allot the color will change to more brown like color.

My girl friend is East Asian . I have no idea if this is true or not. I was curious to know if a woman who had light to light brown skin tone had pinkish vaginal lips but from constant sex and friction does the color change to brown?

I known it sounds like s stupid question but I started to look as Asian porn and many of the Asian girls do have brownish vaginal lips where as my Asian girl friend is pink color but she has the same skin tone as these porn Asian girls.

I have noticed color changes but only during arousal during sex. I put your question to Google and there are multiple references to changes in color as a girl matures. I don't think friction is going to do anything other then cause inflammation and that would only happen if the girl was not producing any lubrication. Guys do not expect their Penis to change color and I doubt any girl is going to see changes other then what may occur as they mature.

On variations in color - That range is amazing from my own observation. Porn can be misleading because often the colors as shot are no where near natural.

http://www.wylde.com/vulva.html

http://www.zgxl.net/eng/health/humanbody/vulva.htm

http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/3456.html

"The first explanation is that what you are experiencing is normal. When a woman is sexually aroused, the first thing a body does is increase blood flow to the genitals. In a woman, the increased blood flow causes not only lubrication, the first sign that a woman is aroused, but also a swelling and deepening of color to her clitoris and inner lips. Colors change from pinks to reds, and from reds to wine or burgundy. (Similarly, the male erection is the result of increased blood flow to the penis.) After a woman orgasms, or when she is no longer aroused, her regular color returns, since flow of blood leaves the vulva and returns to the rest of the body."

Definitely not a stupid question. Now I am curious about this color change myself. I truly hope this new g/f becomes very special in your life, so definitely have a lot of sex with her. It sounds like she is willing to discuss sex openly with you, and this is so great. Be true to her and have a wonderful relationship.