One of my friends get rape 2 days ago, she was a virgin. When we talk to her, she informed that the pain is horrible at when she is being raped, the pain continue for about 5 min then she can feel the good feeling and having orgasm very soon. Why orgasm still appear when a virgin is being raped?

Its hard to believe but it does happen. Years ago I was driving late at night and listened to a call in radio show which featured a Female Psychiatrist. One caller described her rape as painful yet she was filled with guilt because she had an orgasm. This used to be impossible for me to understand, even after hearing the show. Later when I read books by authors like Hite and read other accounts, I still found this difficult to understand.

Yet after a many years It hit "ME" that I have been in worlds of pain and discomfort and experienced a "Forced" Orgasm.

Years ago I ended up with an infection that made my body weak for a number of months. The doctor decided to look at my prostate fluid. That's a "digital" as in finger up the butt rectal massage of the prostate. The only way the gland will give up fluid is by force. I was weak and in pain and that was a HORRIBLE experience. Seemed like it took forever.

Doctor found nothing at the time and it turned out that a few years later I discovered I in fact had a long term infection of that gland. The treatment is more rectal prostate massage and its unpleasant and forces an orgasm.

Yes I know there are guys who enjoy a prostate massage and it may be more common among the gay community. However when the gland is infected its "raw" and massage of a raw painful area is just not something I want to experience again.

Long story to your question about rape and orgasm. Of course there are other people "Wired" into pain as "pleasure" the BDSM thing that I have no experience with nor want any part of. I do have friends who enjoy being spanked or whipped or even various forms of torture and its a sexual >Thing<

Takes a village to make a world and that's my Christmas message while checking mail and offering answers or opinions and one more way to delay for a morning run in the RAIN.

I am very sorry that your friend has been hurt so badly.

Stimulation of the genitals can cause an orgasm at any time, even if a rape is occurring. Rape is a "power thing" that a girl can't stop happening because of the guy's strength and violence that overpowers her.

It is important for a girl to not think of it being her fault that she has had an orgasm, because her fear (and the brutality of it) took away her ability to stop it.

Guys can be anally raped and have an orgasm in prison, so it is not just a female thing.

Many rape victims do have orgasms, and they struggle with that for years afterwards, unless they get professional help to deal with it.

Pain/pleasure are very closely linked in the brain, and under stress the wrong hormones can be released. Fear can make it difficult to run away or fight back, even though the person NEEDS to run away quickly from danger.

Pain/fear can cause seratonin and endorphins to be released to make a part of the body "feel better" when it is being traumatised. The default of the body is to "feel good 24/7", so during a rape hormones may kick in to try and replace pain with pleasure to cope with the attack.....thereby causing an orgasm. It is an orgasm the victim has no control over.

In bondage and discipline games, submissives DELIBERATELY SEEK PAIN from spanking and whipping to cause their brains to release the pleasure hormones to the spanked area, with the deliberate expectation that they will have a "sexual high" and a powerful orgasm and afterglow.

In a rape, the victim does not give her consent, even though the Defence Lawyer in a Court Trial may argue otherwise to find a technical reason get a reduced sentence for his client.

There is a responsibility for all men to monitor each other's behaviour, and to stamp on all bad behaviour quickly. It is never right to allow your mates to hurt women for any reason.

rape is bad and scars a girl for life
rapist should be shot and his assets and pension plan be give to victim, and rapist's family should all financially help the victim for many years to overcome their shame of having reared a rapist to hurt women

Rapists should be castrated or have a red-hot poker pushed up their bum, and if they survive that, a tattoo should be put on their forehead so every one can be warned to pick up a 2 x 4 plank of wood if they come near. No rapist should be allowed to breed. Their testicles can be feed to the sharks in the sea. Whipping is too good for them.

Did rapist get caught?

Any guys that see a rape and don't try to stop it, should be put in prison themselves. Most people have cell phones these days and call the Police or even friends to come and help stop it. Take photos with your cell phone, write down a description of rapist to help with identification.

The majority of men out there are disgusted by rapists.