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how do i ditch my girl ?

January 19 2009 at 11:29 AM
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how do i dich my girl ?

 
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Anonymous
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Re: how do i ditch my girl ?

January 19 2009, 11:39 AM 

i meant. how do i ditch my girl ?

 
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A Dude
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Why?

January 19 2009, 2:19 PM 

What is wrong with her?

Give me a few good reasons and I will give you the easy way out.

 
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rhonda
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Re: Why?

January 21 2009, 5:26 PM 

don't just dump her, tell her the truth that u r not right 4 her anymore and she deserves better

help her 2 find someone else
one of your mates might b secretly keen 2 date her

give her $700 as "severance pay" for hurting her feelings
and thank her for going out with u

give her back anything u have borrowed from her

tell all the guys every nice thing u can about her, so she won't be lonely very long on her own

just because u don't want her anymore, does not mean another guy won't FEEL something about her that MAKES HIS HEART do awesome somersaults

if u see her in the street, talk to her and find out if she is happy dating someone else. do all u can to make your breakup with her FEEL like it is a GOOD THING and much BETTER things are just around the corner 4 her to enjoy as soon as she spots them

after u break up, NEVER EVER say an unkind word about her. Just accept that she will most likely fall in love again very quickly - AND U NEED TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT HER BEING WITH ANOTHER GUY. You want a nice outcome for her, so u no longer need to feel bad about breaking off with her

if u dump her abruptly, she will carry emotional scars for a long time wondering what she has done wrong

u should "place a value" on the time u have dated her, and work with her to ease her down without dumping her

DUMPING HURTS

good luck

aim 4 a happy breakup by telling the truth, so she is never left wondering what she might have done

we all have to go out on dates to find out if we are compatible, so it is normal to call it quits if your date does not make the earth move 4 u

BUT NEVER MAKE HER FEEL THAT SHE IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH 4 U
If u have fallen in love with someone else, tell her the truth, so she can accept offers of love from someone else

 
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Anonymous
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how do i ditch my girl ?

January 22 2009, 11:06 PM 

where is the best place ?

 
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kesla
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Re: how do i ditch my girl ?

January 24 2009, 6:12 PM 

don't dump her by e-mail or text
if u don't feel she is right for you, then tell her why but give her a chance to talk it through so you don't hurt each other. Go out several more times to see if things can be "fixed up".
i know a guy who was driving the car with his girlfriend and he told her he wanted to break off, and she pulled off her clothes and said he could have sex as many times as he wished if only he wouldn't breakup with her, he still broke it off, but not sure if he had sex before making a final decision.
face-to-face meeting and talk it over before both agree to break off amicably. some girls get angry, others don't want to break off suddenly until another fuy is available. feels awful to be dumped when you felt all was well and you were dreaming of a wedding one day

 
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Re: how do i ditch my girl ?

January 24 2009, 6:17 PM 

stand in a ditch at the witching hour of midnight and scream at the wild alley cats. better to ditch yourself. your gf sounds nicer than u.

 
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Re: how do i ditch my girl ?

January 24 2009, 6:20 PM 

you got a girlfriend with a pussy to love, and u r not satisfied. man u r crazy. tell me where she lives and i will pick her up in my car and treat her like a lady and she will be mine to enjoy. hope it is a long time b4 u get another gf. i can move towns, i find jobs easy to get coz i have high skills

 
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