why do men have to pay for everything ?

Over the years my GF's have paid for a dinner now and then and bought me gifts and paid their share of a vacation together. Plane tickets and even more if I allowed it.

My Ego prevented me from going for all they offered.

So why do you think you have too?

U can enjoy going out with a girl and pay her back by spending money on her so she gets her reward. Nothing is free in life.

If you were Brad Pitt a girl would most likely want to share the expenses with you, but it costs a lot of money for a girl to keep herself looking nice for her date's admiring eyes.

Why don't u think of HOW LUCKY YOU ARE that a girl is going out with you instead of some other guy SHE COULD BE WITH. If you want to make your datinge more enjoyable, then don't count up the money you spend on her.

Do your budget and decide how much you can afford to spend on your social life, and stick to that amount. Then you won't feel resentful spending money on girls.

Chase fun, but never believe you can get a girl naked by spending extra money on her. You will make her feel like a prostitute.