i have been seeing a guy for a year now, but i want to have a fling with a women. i really dont know where i stand with him he is very none comital. our relationship is long distance. so if i have a fling is it cheating?

How would you or how do you feel if he wants to have a fling with another woman or guy?

If it does not bother you at all then you are not committed enough for it to matter and you can do as you please. Or as an option you can be honest with him about your needs.

thanks you are right. it doesnt matter it would be horible to find out he had a fling no matter the sex. i guess i was just trying to find a way around it. i may talk to him not sure he may say to do what ever i want to make me happy but really not be ok with it. thaks again

You should be able to have your cake and eat it too.

What is the use of being in any relationship if you cannot be honest.

Sure you may lose what you have ....However based on what you have said about the current relationship...well I can only comment based on the little info you gave us.

He "might" find it exciting to find out what you desire or? One way to find out is to tell him about a dream you had and see who he reacts.