my boyfriend talks often about eating pussy, he mentioned it lots befor we got together and says it lots in front of my friends how ever he rarely goes down on me. he has only 4 times in a year. the last time he was i was sucking him and he wasnt hard. so does he just talk about eating pussy because he thinks that is what girls want to here, or is it just my pussy he doesnt like?

Ask him to list verbal his top 5 fav things to do while making love. One time not being hard while you give oral to him should not count. If it continues for a number of times then it is something to talk to him about.

That old show you yours and I will show you mine - translates to tell you what you like best and I will share mine with you.

He might just think that saying all that stuff is really what makes him a normal guy. His excuse for not eating you may really be that he's not as experienced as you think he is and if you're not over the top screaming in orgasm when he does he may think hes not doing well therefore causing him not to want to do it often. If you talk to him about it see if you can figure out why he doesn't eat you often. And when he does eat you, don't fake an outrageous orgasm but let him know somehow that you appreciate it and hes doing well. Or he just may be one of those guys that does like it but cares more about getting pleased himself than to worry about you getting off first.