Hey guys.I used to be really confident about the way my vagina appeared, but then I started reading about insecure girls with large labia minora (inner lips) and guy's responses about how they loved playing with them and ect... now I'm torn.Should I be insecure about not having large labia minora.I don't have a "butterfly" or anything.
I'm exactly the same, Thing is I don't care If guys don't like it they not worth it. I've never had any complaints, Everyones diffrent and everyone likes diffrent, There are guys out there who just don't mind, prefer little, prefer large and there is nothing anyone can do to change that! Enjoy being diffrent and there are more people like you out there *wave*
GL :)
In the end, it doesn't matter. If a man is physically attracted to you while you are still dressed, there is no way he will complain about your specific feature like big or small labia.
You have to understand that for a man, there is a major difference between general preferences and primordial sexual drive. I, for one, prefer large major labia and small minor labia. There is no explanation, it's only a preference. The real and only important thing is that if I find you attractive, and we spend the evening together flirting each other more and more, the moment we get both naked I’m so happy and enjoying myself to even for a fraction of a second consider anything else. I want you, you want me and that's enough. As long that my first impression is good and I find you attractive, I’m more than Ok.
In fact, the behaviour of my partner in bed is what I care more about. I like sex and I like women that like sex too. The experience is so much more enjoyable when this connection of ''we both have fun'' is made.
if you have little to no labia sticking out what are you worried for?
besides the comment if a "man is interested in you he will not care about your labia" is like the comment "if a women is interested in you she would not care about your penis size" and we all know that nto true so that answers that comment
So, Anon your saying that Labia minora size does matter?Yeah, I have some labia minora but I don't have huge floppy ones.It does not matter anyways...I've come to realize you can't put an ideal appearance on something so intimate,sacred, and individual as labia minora.
LOL yes it does matter if you can put an ideal appearance on penis size then you can put an ideal appearance on labia size! so i have no idea where you get that from
If I could wave a magic wand and have one wish, I would erase women's insecurities about the appearances of their vulvas. Ladies, we are absolutely fascinated by the way you look, and any time you are willing to share that beautiful private area with us, we are more than grateful! Be proud of what you have!
It's a pleasure to help and to share openly and with respect on such sensitive subject. I'm glad I live in 2005 and not in the 60's !
We have to make the realisation (men and women) that major differences exist between both sexes when it comes to how we channel, process and ultimately express sexual behaviour. This discussion started about how a woman specific physical feature would affect the sexual response of a man. Let's share a little bit of information on a man perspective about this.
Men are the hunter, women are the pray (not in the sense that we are superior in any way, but to point out that this how the roles are played by both sexes). It's genetically encoded in our DNA that way. Denying this fact would be denying that the sun will rise again tomorrow. As hunter, we are very sensitive to visual stimuli to facilitate our task and respond to this stimuli with sexually oriented actions. That is why most women perceive, rightfully, that most men have only thing in mind: Sex. This is true. 90% of men I know personally would have sex all day long if they could....
We are capable of much more than just fuck everything that move, it's just that most of the time, sex is the first thing that come to our mind. We fanatically love to see, touch, smell, taste and feel women, more that most women would suspect and even most men would care to admit. BTW, I'm not a nymphomaniac, I have sex 4 to 6 times a week with my girl and I'm very satisfied.
All that to say: Like woody said, we are indeed fascinated and enjoy very much when we have the opportunity to share sexual experience with women comfortable with their own sexuality, which obviously include the perception that they have about their body. That state of mind usually translate into an experience where men are exposed to a women that are not afraid to share and show everything, with pleasure and satisfaction I might add !! This is nirvana for us !
NOTE: About this women versus men thing with penis size compared with men physical preference: If I might, I would like to point out that a very small penis and larger than average penis must have a different impact on a women because of the direct physical exchange involved in copulation. A woman will indeed fell ''more'' a bigger penis that a smaller one even if the vagina adapt to all sizes (expect micro penis and horse sized one...). That is very different and has little in common, in my opinion, with men sexual response to visual stimuli.
i have large labia and i dont like it but at the end of the day its not un-normal and everyone has some. my boyfriend loves me how i am so i dont give a s**t
Deal with it you beef curtained wosses
How can you say you dokn't like your labia and then say just because your boyfriend loves you you don't give a shit? What if tomorrow he doesn't love you anymore? Will you suddenly "give a shit?" If you don't like something about yourself, do something about it.... if you want to .....for YOU. Not for anyone else, just for you. Draw the certains and check out Dr Alter!!
you're an idiot who is probably a woman with small labia pretending to be a man just so it gives you an excuse to be rude and bitchy. OR you're a man who is desperate and you're giving compliments to random women; reassuring them in hope of having a one night stand. Also, YOU are insecure about yourself because you either have an "ugly" vagina or a tiny deformed penis. Shut the fuck up. I know for a fact that you're a stupid bitch, a desperate guy who is insecure about yourself, or you're GAY and have NO clue what you're talking about. Real men don't care what a pussy looks like. Pussy is pussy. As long as the labia minora aren't abnormally long and i mean REALLY REALLY long as in over 3-4 inches then men don't care. A vagina is beautiful. If Big penises, big lips on a woman (on her mouth), big boobs, big butts, and etc are "better" than big vaginal lips are better too!!!! get a life and go fiind a real women before you judge. Better yet, Go contemplate your sexuality and THEN judge. Once you see that you're a closeted gay man then try to judge again. wow. tsk tsk tsk
I like a gals labia anyway it looks. The bigger the better. Ya know in some countries gals actually stretch their labias to make them longer. More to chew and suck on! Hey Babe, enjoy your lips just the way they are, that's what God gave ya.