Im 21 yrs old. i only had one ex boy friend & i think we only had sex at least less than 20 times in almost 3 years. Now i have a new boy friend & virginity matters to him. I told him i was not a virgin but he still loves me. One day he told me that he hardly feels me when we're having sex because my vagina is too loose. is it possible that having sex frequently can loosen my vagina? what can i do to tighten it? please help me cause it really depresses me.

Give him the Pussy Test, which is this:

if he loves you, the "fit" of his cock in your pussy won't be important.

You don't have to change anything - your pussy is in correct proportion to your body shape. Don't beat yourself up.

There are 25 million boys in USA around your age - anyone of them would like to be your boyfriend if you put on a smiley welcome.

If a guy don't treat you right, he moves out of life pronto...you don't need anyone who does not think that every inch of you is worth kissing.

Now these are words from my very adorable OBGYN, who "Sniff" is married.
And whom his wife by the way, swears he is a sex god in bed!!
But back to reality, and Blake, whomever you are, great words to live by.

YOur pussy from what my OBGYN tells me will not loosen from hagving sex. Your Pussy, rather the inside of it is muscle, so heres the deal if you dont use your muscles then they become lose, and floppy. and if you use your muscle then they become tight.
When you have sex you are using your muscles, therefore they tighten. Do some Kegal Exercises, they will help tighten your pussy.
The easiest way to do it is when your takin a piss. Let the piss out and then cut it off. Once you get used to doin that when you piss you can do it anywhere... even in church!!!

Sista, I have banged my wahine thousands of times over the past couple of decades and she still feeels good. I hardly doubt you have a loose pussy. Maybe you need to find a Bra with a bigger piece of meat. Sounds like your dude may be a little on the smaller side, ya follow? Hang Loose, J-man