Hey everyone...im scared because the guy that i adore and love wants to have sex with me but im too afraid to show off my large labia lips...what should i do? what if he judges me and doesnt like them? what if i work up the courage to actually have sex with him and then at the site of my lips he becomes repulsed and turns me away? PLEASEE HELPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!

listen her miss dont worry so much over that which god has blessed you with, the act is for most guys the ideal of "getting laid" is all they are thinking of and i will tell any lady this, if he looks at you and shows any disgust call him a wanker tell him to piss off but if this guy is a complete gentelman he will accept you for who you are and will give you a pleasure beyond words.

love shall be my greatest weapon

Bring them on, I love loose lips. Very hot! I'll put them to good use for ya. My gal has nice long lips and they are very sexy. Jungle Man

Different strokes for different folks I always say..

But I've never heard a guy, in my 30 years of having and know sex.. ever complained about the lips of a girl friend or wife.
Never , ever heard it brought up in over 30 years.

Porn can be great, but when it causes problems like this, some gal thinking she doesn't have the ideal lips, in either place, then it's a problem.

Be giving and caring, tell him what pleases you, show him..
Ask him what he wants, likes.. verbal foreplay.

If he cares, he'll be just as nervous as you are.

If all we wants to do is screw you, he wont be nervous and he aint worth it.

Haha, nearly every women on this planet is insecure of their lip size, color, or how much they protrude. Those porn stars with the 'ideal' lips have most likely have surgery to reduce them. Don't worry about it, you're fine.

http://www.vaginaverite.com/lookslike.html This is a great site, read through some of the responces on whether women like the way their vagina looks, and you'll soon learn that it's normal to have large, protruding lips. Every vagina is different, take it from one who has seen several!

And, I bet he'll be just as nervous as you! Men are fairly insecure of their penis size, so he'll be thinking 'What if she doesn't like it's size?' just as you are! And if he does say something, that just proves that he hasn't seen to many vaginas...aside from porn. So feel free to call him pathetic.

Once a guy has his cock in your pussy, his fantasy is complete. If he ejaculates, he will be so fucking pleased, as he has got what he dreams about - a nice fuck with a willing female.

Your body is there only to tease and attract him, but his dream is to get his cock in your pussy hole, and to slide it back and forth until the sperm rushes out.

Vaginas come in different sizes and shapes, just as there are different hair colours and penis shapes and sizes.

Every vagina is exciting to a guy - especially,if it is available for his pleasure to explore and play with.

Us girls can pick and choose which guys we let fuck us, but guys don't really have a choice - their cocks want to fuck any girl who is willing to drop her pants.

Guys have a genetic mission to make babies to keep the world going, so it can be hard to control their desire for sex.

Looks are not important, it's your personality that attracts a guy.

95% of guys reckon they don't get enough sex, so a "willing pussy" becomes a "very attractive pussy".

We become more attractive to guys if we "play hard to get".

Sex is beautiful at any age, but we all want more than a one night stand.

A guy who loves us will not be judgemental over what our bodies look like. Love conquers all boundaries and makes us feel more beautiful and fulfilled.

Any guy who criticizes a girl's body, does not have love in his heart - he is kinda shopping around so that he can brag to his mates that he "got his leg over" another girl. He is not ready to commit to a long term relationship. We can do without him until he grows up and becomes a "real man" who shows proper respect.

I admit that there will always be some guys and girls who want to fuck every weekend with almost anyone they meet, but I am not one of those.

I prefer quality, rather than quantity. Less can be much better.

Missy, I think if my wahine had to say it, what you wrote would sum it up. I've been with quite a few gals before her and she's been with a few brahs before me. I've been with her for 21 years sista and if I could fuck every day I would if I could, but I can't. To her it's not quantity, now it's quality. Less is best she seems to think. Possibly she's all fucked out? When we first started going out it was two and sometimes even three times a day, everyday!! Now I get it at least 4 times per week. I shouldn't complain I guess the sex is good and she is one hot looking wahine. Everytime I see here undressing I just want to jump on her, but I don't. Gals do think completely different than us brahs, that's for sure. Ya know there are alot of hot looking sista on this island and I asked my friend a question once as we were cruising along side the beach in our car. I pointed over to a nice wahine strolling along and I said to my friend. " What is the first thing that pops into your mind when you look at her" He said, "Brah, I'd love to fuck her" I doubt that gals think the same way. I said Brah, wouldn't you like to get to know her first. He say no, Get into her pants first and then ask questions later. Do most of you brahs think that way? Hey, nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with a beautiful Wahine, but it sure would be nice to get to know them first. I hope my gal is in the mood tonight, I sure am! Aloha, J-man

Thank you guys so muchhh!!!!!! you all have helped me so damn much.