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Toys? Or Not?

March 17 2006 at 1:03 PM
WhatYouCrave  (no login)

Hey guys, I was wondering.... do you like to use toys in the bedroom to spice things up? Or do you have to much pride to let your woman be pleasured by a piece of plastic...or for that matter, you to be pleasured by a piece of plastic????!!!!!????


Also, i wish to know - do guys like eating out a girls ass?? I think the proper term for this is "Tossing Salad"!?!?!?!?

 
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old timer
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Re: Toys? Or Not?

March 17 2006, 1:42 PM 


We bought one and tried it years ago for giggles and grins.

Wifey likes them, so I've bought different ones to surprise her with.

Did it originally for the spice, but after being run over by a taxi while biking, T boned by a truck loaded with fencing which hit me right in the driver's door and ripped the cab off my 4x4 minipickup, and being hit by lightening, they've become practical to help her be satisfied, while saving my back at times.
No more missionary for me.. either doggy or her on top. So the toys help add positions and create positions.

There's another phrase for it, can't think of it now. But no, don't chow down at the brown hole. But I have fingered it , or used a small dildo while fucking her her pussy with a bigger dildo.
The anal play, or just putting something there changes the feeling of the pussy penetration.
I've also given her anal, when she wanted to try it. She likes it every now and then.

My brother does it to his girl friends, he loves to do it and those he does it to, he says they love it.

 
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valiry
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lot to lurn

October 18 2006, 6:00 PM 

ha i put thim in my pussy and my girl friends to and we love it

 
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SHAVER
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RE: WhatYouCrave

March 17 2006, 3:44 PM 

Toys are great. They are just another way to spice up activities that could otherwise become too routine. However, they could, as Old Timer had mentioned, compensate for certain difficiencies on one or both partners.

As for "Tossing the Salad" or "giving a rim job", it is always tempting, but usually you need to prepare for such intimacy for health reasons. Most sex is not planned in great detail.

 
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Old Timer
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Thats it..

March 20 2006, 9:48 AM 

Shaver, that's the expression I was looking for... but couldn't think of it.
"giving a rim job"

 
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holdee
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toys or not

March 18 2006, 3:21 PM 

I use toys as I amable tto stisfy my wife. I replaäce my penis ba the toy. as I am to qiuck.

 
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Anonymous
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Re: Toys? Or Not?

March 23 2006, 8:45 AM 

I think that all the women should be fucked by Lomazzo!!!

 
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Jungle man
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Lomazzo

March 23 2006, 9:59 PM 

Hey Brah, since I've made my appearance back on this forum I've cleaned up my act. Women are not just sex objects, dick snap! At least I don't treat my women like that. You sound like a bit of a jerk. J-man

 
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Moonee
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Re: Lomazzo

April 1 2006, 1:06 AM 

2-3 rinses of the bum hole with an enema can remove any objectional material and prepare it for anal intercourse or rimming....but you need to be very careful with strangers as the anus can be easily damaged and have microscopic tears which can harbour std's and AIDS.

AIDS causes serious and permanent damage to the immunity system. A simple cold can then become life-threatening, and you are succeptible to every other bug in the community. One of these bugs will eventually end your life. You might last longer if you went to live on a desert Island away from people.

 
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Meagan
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Re: Lomazzo

October 14 2006, 10:28 PM 

once upon a time men and women fucked each other spontaneously like animals - but now you need a university degree to fuck someone

i think i liked it better the way the cavemen did it - less hangups

 
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femdom
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rimming

November 13 2006, 7:23 PM 

Rimming - you call it "tossing salad"..whatever...doesn't everyone? girls and guys?

 
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Billy
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Re: rimming

November 15 2006, 3:06 PM 

femdom - are you sub or top? are you bi?

 
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Richardo
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Re: rimming

November 16 2006, 11:22 PM 

There would be less need for toys if girls guided a guy's hand and told him how to bring her off with the right pressures and strokes.

Too many girls expect a young prince to be very knowledgeable about sex, but that can only happen if the prince has "fucked around" with numerous girls to get the experience that makes him feel CONFIDENT.

 
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Bad news

July 25 2007, 8:12 AM 

Richardo you hit the nail on the head. Nothing worse than two virgins in lust and neither one has a clue what goes where. I could easily get my soapbox out on this subject.

Old Jim

 
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yes, no, oh hell yeah...

June 7 2007, 9:26 PM 

i think toys are fun. we use them in our bed on occasion. since she won't fuck another man, we pretend with some very thick dildos. i'm so secure in my manhood, that i use them on her so that she may enjoy herself to the fullest. i even lick and suck her juices off them, turning her on all the more!
we have discussed her using a small dildo or vibe on me, but, i'm 'inexperienced'. maybe in the near future, she'll be able to penetrate me. maybe if i could force myself to relax!
to actually stick my tongue INSIDE a woman's ass would be so much nicer than just licking at the opening! any docs out there performing tongue lenghtening surgery? i'd like 3"!

 
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matt
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toys are great

August 4 2007, 8:02 AM 

toys can be a fantastic turn on for both of you. Sometimes a penis or tongue alone cannot do the trick, but a nice vibrator working on a clit or clit can make a woman comw with complete ecstacy

 
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cremebrulee
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anal sex and coming

August 29 2007, 8:20 PM 

My favorite: getting fucked hard in the ass from behind while I use a "magic wand" vibrator on my clit. Oh My God!!! Lots of dirty talk. It makes me squirt.
I always prepare for anal sex- whether I know we are having it or not. We pretty much always do. We do both kinds. First vaginal, and then anal. I always have to feel completely clean and I want him to be also so I can lick his ass. He loves it. Little tongue flicks, blowing and teething. Talking about how it feels, tastes- (clean), I slide up and down his body, whispering in his ear telling him what he feels like, then licking and nibbling his ass, then whispering in his ear again. He is completely vulnerable and soemtimes a little nervous but totally turned on and loving it.
But none of it is possible if we are not clean just before. As a practice. Then we can relax and enjoy the sensations. the very best!!!

For those of you who are interested but nervous about germs,(perfectly intelligent concern) they make "dental dams" which are plastic sheaths made to cover the anus so you can rim but not actually have contact with the skin and opening. Never used them myself but they are available.
ANd there is the "Anal T"- a battery operated toy that you put in your ass and it vibrates. the T shape keeps it from going all the way in. Sometimes I put that in him while he is fucking me.
But other times we make love and look into eachother's eyes and rock and writhe with only our bodies- worshipping eachother.
Isn't that the best of all?

 
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