Hi all let me first start off by saying I love everything about my body except for my pussy lips. I have been trying to embrace them since I was a child but can't seem to over come the embarassement of what they look like. I am a hot 36 years old with long black hair, dd breast 36 28 36 measurements green eyes. I'm hot and guys and girls are always trying to get me in bed. If I had small pussy lips I would be fucking everybody. I love sex, I love to masterbate, but I am so embarssed I feel like a reject deformed even. My husband has never said anything to me about them it's sort of taboo. I wish he would eat me and tell me how wonderful they are. Maybe then I would walk around with no panties on or spread my legs wide out and wait for him after work. I won't even masterbate in front of him because I am afraid that he will be turned off by the looks of my pussy.

I like my pussy lips are hot but I feel like others don't. One guy asked me if I played with myself alot because that's how you get big lips so I stopped masterbating for months. Another guys asked me why they were so big.

My girlfriend wants to eat my pussy and fuck me but made a comment about how gross other pussy's are when they are big, long and chewed. I wanted so bad to hop in bed with her until then.............

Advice.. Surgery or not.

Time for you to look at porn sites. Just how many other Vagina's have you viewed?

That little girl look with just a slit is rare. Usually there is at least some degree of inner lips showing. Often much MORE.

All those nerve endings that add "feelings" More to touch - eat - play with.

http://www.thehun.net/

Its a variety site that is safe virus wise. Try a couple of days or more just for your education of the VARIETY.

You of course could tell your husband you are thinking of having tissue removed and get his point of view. Please yourself first.

Sure it is true about men and women who would prefer that little girl look. Others like this "guy" who enjoys MORE but I take what I can get a truly enjoy less or more. More is just more to play with from my point of view and besides as a young kid I was disappointed to see only a thin slit. Later when I was able to open one UP - Well that was sure fun - Seeing the more without having to open is - well NICE LoL

Just curious but at what age did you notice that you had something extra?

Hi Dude, it was probaly around 11 that I noticed that I had extra down there. I heard that vagina's are heritary. I never asked my mother to embarrassed. However I do have a daughter and hers was normal up until this year. I was so happy but then she asked me and showed me, I hope for her sake they don't get any bigger.

Of course "We" have our own issues with Penis size. Mine is just perfect when erect but looks to small when not - varies with temperature. I can tell you from lots of experience that what you see when it comes to Vagina's may change a great deal with excitement. Much like Erections - blood flow and inner Labia may start to protrude.

I have a best friend and she tells similar stories to yours about a guy commenting about her "extras" Because she is just a close friend I have not viewed what she has but she has described them as almost being able to tie into knots - and she says they were always that way from as young as she can remember - but frankly I doubt they were that way when she was say 7 years old. Since I have never viewed a mother and daughter together I have no clue if Vagina's are heredity related. We know Breasts are not. -- Then again since I have been to a lot of nude beaches perhaps I have seen Mothers and daughters nude together but never 'checked' details like that out LoL

Just a comment about what your husband may think about this - This may sound strange and even I think it is - I had a significant partner for many years and she had C cup breasts with stretch marks. On occasion I look at porn sites just to see similar breasts. I am not a fan of airbrushed porn that I grew up with - Therefore I think it must be the "real" vs my dislike of airbrushed nude pictures and net porn does a lot with filters and lighting to get similar effects.

Hey A Dude, thanks for that link! I've never really looked at pornography before but I've been looking at these forums for a while now and I know you always give such kind and comforting advice that I gave in to my curiosity, and I am shocked! I always thought I had quite large inner labia, I probably started to notice mine at around the age of 11 as well, but looking at these pictures I can see that there are many beautiful women with very similar vulvas to mine. This is really great, I don't feel at all self-concsious after looking at those, so thank you!

Also, I think it's great that you devote so much time to telling of your own experiences in the hope of putting women at ease and making them realise how normal and attractive they are, it's really a nice thing to see when the internet tends to be full of so much bitterness.

With literally billion's of web sites one can find a lot of good as well as awful information. One sad fact of growing up in how long it takes to really find out what you need to know to survive and enjoy life.