I've never been totally confident about my vagina as I dot know what is normal and preferable for a guy, but since I gave birth to my children I'm at an all time low. I feel like it is huge now and a big mess. I have a really messy scar down there too. I am really worried about my boyfriend seeing it now and wont have the lights on for him to see. Has anyone else had similar experiences and would this repulse anyone?

What do you mean by a big mess?

I just mean that I don't think it looks like it should do, they did a really bad job stitching me back up and I now have extra little skin folds where they put it back together. It isn't a pretty sight like it should be.

For most guys I know - How does it feel when he is inside.

Our hands make for a very poor substitute and a Vagina is smooth and juicy and tight enough by comparison. Me? I have said many times I like the 'extra' outside to lick and kiss.