I am just wondering if men prefer fat pussy lips or not? (otter) I am curious because my man tells me I have the fatest outter lips he's ever seen or been with. I don't know if it's a good thing. He never said if it's good or bad. I was kind of embarressed to ask him. I just want opinions ya know. Curious to know Brenda
My hubby loves them large, I hope you can somehow bring it up in a way that is comfortable, maybe in the heat of passion, or ask him about what he fantasizes about, it can be a huge turn on to share your fanasties with eachother, and then you can just find out that way. If they hang down that just gives them more steak to eat right?!...Well at least that is what my man says. There are so many nerves there to stimulate, I just hope you can experiment and find out once and for all..to many men it is an absolute turn on. Good Luck girlfren.. don't sell yourself short, you are lovely just the way you are.. remember that
I am sure that your husband meant it as a compliment when he said your lips were large. It is sexy to look at and truly awesome to touch and caress with hands or with mouth. Most guys love meaty pussy lips. Don't be offended by the comment. He probably thought you would take it as a compliment as if you had told him that he has the fattest cock you've ever had experience with.
Enjoy your anatomy for what it is because I'm sure your hubby is doing the same.
Why is it such a compliment to have a fat penis? Even when guys are content with whatever they've come to accept in their jocks they would still seem to rather own an annaconda. I quite enjoy the smaller ones, definatley! Not skinny, but not enormous.
Brenda my wife has fat pussy lips like yours and Ilove it. I love to suck on her lips to turn her on. She then wants nme tosuck on her clit until she is ready to come. What a wonderful wet hole is waiting. Enjoy what you have and prmote all the advantages. A vagina with all its configurations have no shortcomings.
As a woman with larger than "normal" lips I too am disappointed that there are not more pictures of women endowed in this way. I have gone to the plastic surgery sights to see before and after pics, but the message here is clear, and that is to get rid of them.
I personally feel they add to the pleasure of sex. Whether my man touches me with his hands or when he is on top of me entering me, it just feels great. I can come every time, usually 3 or 4 times and I think it has something to do with the cushioning those lucious lips provide.
I get turned on by large lips and yet all I've ever seen are tiny little lips...women need to know that men really do not care about this. They care most about your response in bed. If you are into them and can respond to their touch, they will think you are beautiful in every way. I can assure you women that men get more turned off when they feel like they're making love to a limp teabag. So, my advice is to turn up the oooh's and aaaah's and be sure to tell him what you like and how much you like it. Your lip size will be a concern of the past if this happens..;)
My husband prefer a big and long vagina for a fine licking game of sex before fucking me.
The big fat pussylips and the big and long clitoris of my vagina gives him the kick of life to do what he have to do withe me. I think it gives me something fifferent of other women, something special
Anneke, I saw you on www.annekevanzoomeren.erolog.nl, and i must say, you look very very sexy with your bog lips, your magnificent body, but especially your dd form of tits.
I'm jealous of your lover boy, who got such a babe in his bed. I can read your stories on www.eroverhalen.erolog.nl in your own language in Dutch. It's really true you say! I will feel your lips round my Dick. It is!
Lips are great
Big and small
short and tall
tight or floppy
they all are great and feel great
if it works then why complain
send me a picture of your lips, and i will let you know if they really are great looking or not an honest appraisel firstname.lastname@example.org
I will be honest with you, men love all genetilia. If they are puffy and hanging out or if they are small we love it all. If a guy has a problem with the way your vagina looks, you just need to move on.
The problem for we women is that we have no means to measure oursleves or compare to others. Men know what their dick looks like, but so much of our vaginas are hidden from view. Society doesn't speak at all about the vagina, so we don't know of what we have is pleasing to our partners or not. We hear that we smell like fish (I don't think so), or some negative comments, but never just that vagina is great.
Most men are waaaay more preoccupied with worrying about what you'll think of them than to even begin to be critical of your vagina, they'll just be glad you let them in! If they are critical, it most often stems from fear of being rejected themselves, or having a negative self-image of not being able to satisfy you, so they try to cap you down.
Relax, your husband is probably telling you what he likes about you, you're lucky to get such feedback!
my lips hang down by lyk a cm & i h8td them at first wen every1 sed it wa a bucket but wen men suck on them it feels SSSSSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO gud i get so HORNY its unbelieveable even thinkin about it is a big turn on & if a man dnt lyk it that his los cuz ma current bf says he gets a tickling sensation during sec the way they rub up & dwn his dick
It should go pretty much without saying that a woman's vulva is her most overtly feminine feature. As a man, I confirm that exaggerated charactistics might be something of a turn-on for some men, but I think that would work mostly for men who don't know the woman very well.
My advice to women is not to worry about it at all. Any man who actually cares for you will really love whatever your vulva looks like, just because it's yours. That's how love goes. What to worry about would be men who actually do care much about something like that, I'd think.
Well, I've had both in women. I personally get more turned on by playing with larger parts BUT what really matters is the woman's reaction to whatever the man does.
If you like it, say so, in a sexy way. (i.e, "Oohh, right there is good." or, "Keep doing that.") If it's not quite right, say "Move right just a bit and push harder like you did a minute ago." This feedback lets the guy know you are really into what he's doing for you. That's way more sexy that whatever style of genitalia you have. Ask any guy to play with whatever you have and see what I mean!
Robert, this is great advice. My man tells me this all the time. He turns me on beyond belief and I'm sure to utter those tiny little words to remind him of how amazing he is. He tells me that my responses are the biggest turn on of all. Our sex life is amazing despite my original concerns over my "cushy pussy". He loves my parts because they love him.
More women should know this about men...I think there's too much pressure about looks when the focus should be on the interaction.
This makes me feel a lot better about myself. My pussy lips are bigger and longer than anybody's that I've seen. I'm very self-conscious about them. I have had people make fun of them before, therefore increasing my self-consciousness. Knowing that there are men that find lips like mine sexy is a confidence booster. Thank you.
I'm a grown up sexually experienced man. Whilst definitely not a deal breaker in any way - by pure prefernce, I would go for plump. I don't understand the trend for the so called designer vagina - a hot swollen woman is something deeply arousing and very special.
Yes, we men love big puffy lips. The only thing I like better is a big clitoris. The bigger the Lips, the longer the clitoris the better I can lick and suck them. Usually bringing a woman to several climaxes. I once brought my wife to seven or eight climaxes this way before I penetrated her for another four climaxes.
For milke cakes (read breasts), my personal preference is medium size. But it does not mean that huge breasts are not desireable. There are any number of men out there who would prefer massive breasts. Same is the case with vaginal lips. Some men will only treat your pussy as more womanly and sexy.
I just love woman with huge lips, the one's that hang down. The biger and fatter the better, I love to suck on them. I only wish I could find woman with huge lips, We need a site just for woman with huge lip who want to be eatten.