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can a virgin masturbate?

May 31 2005 at 3:51 PM
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i am a virgin and i've been masturbating for about a week but i haven't came yet. can someone please tell me how could i come?

 
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Egygy
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Virgin can masturbate

June 1 2005, 4:44 PM 

Answer is yes
generally, enjoy ur pussy lips, and clit
use ur fingers to spread ur pussy lips, keep them open while sliding your middle finger down and up.
rubbing ur clit in a rotating motion with one or two fingers.

Plz read the following link
http://www.network54.com/Forum/thread?forumid=271834&messageid=1116390087&lp=1116654169

 
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Hi there
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Hitachi Magic Wand

June 7 2005, 3:27 AM 

I highly recommend the Hitachi Magic Wand vibrator for helping you have your first orgasm.

 
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Anonymous
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Re: can a virgin masturbate?

June 12 2005, 10:38 PM 

Yes...if you can get your hands on a vibrator of some sort you'll be all set. It gets you off quickly and efficiently. Being a virgin certainly does not interfere with your ability to masturbate.

On a side note, I hope you're not planning on losing your virginity anytime soon. I waited until my sophomore year of college to do so. Enjoy your virginity throughout your middle/high school years. It's the most carefree time of your life that shouldn't be plagued with complex sex & relationship problems. Knowing how to make yourself feel good will get you through those years. Good luck =)

 
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Linda
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Masterbation

July 10 2005, 9:16 AM 

yes by all means a virgin can masterbate and orgasm.

you just have to relax don't worry about it. explore and play with your self. You'll cum and cum and cum

I agree a vibrator is a great way to masterbate. Also use it in you yes I mean fuck yourself with it, you'll still be a virgin as you haven't had a man in you. use it and have fun

 
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Anonymous
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can a virgin masturbate

July 10 2005, 11:56 AM 

Yes. Most women these days have masturbated and come to orgasm while being virgins . Find your clitoris rub it gently using plenty of lubricant try rubing your clitoris with your thumb with your middle finger in you vagina. .Avibrator would help

 
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Re: can a virgin masturbate

July 16 2005, 11:12 PM 

I virtually have almost no outer lips, and my inner lips are pretty big. All throughout this site I see people talking about how much feeling they have and how good it feels to have them touched, but I, personally, don't have much (if any) feeing at all.

however, :)

My first vibrator was 12 dollars and I got it at wal mart...I believe it's a conair massager...although like Samantha Jones once said, "do you actually think women are using these things for their sore necks?"

but anyway, with that I only need to concentrate on the clitoris (which makes it very simple) and that thingy sure does the trick. That's what I still use to this day.

If you can find anything that you can comfortably (and safely!) put into your vagina that's long enough to reach your g-spot, I'd recommend trying that. I caught on to clitoral masturbation a lot quicker, but to me, g-spot orgasms are definitely a lot stronger and therefore, nicer.

I hope this all helps you.

 
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to come

July 17 2005, 6:04 PM 

my x had the same problem and all she had to do is make to vagina wider by using ether a bigger dildo or more fingers ok so pls git back to me bout this ok bye there


i am 16 so you can talk to me ok bye there

 
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Re: to come

August 23 2005, 9:33 AM 

^^^^^^ hey hey me 2, my gf never does it, but she let me do it .

 
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Shalamar Rue
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Fingering your pussy....

August 8 2006, 5:54 AM 

Well I cant tell you how to cum. Every pussy is different as well is the touchin that feels right enough to make it wet and make it cum. Yes, virgins can masterbate and remain virgins. YOu dont have to have something, cock or dildo, shoved up your pussy in order to cum. Clitorial stimulation is what I assume gets most of us ladies off, when we finger our pussies or masterbate as is the term.

 
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Mel
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Re: Fingering your pussy....

August 8 2006, 5:49 PM 

Of course virgins can masturbate and orgasm. Little babies sometimes 'accidentally' have orgasms. I started masturbating when I was only 3 or 4 years old. It's statistically shown that little girls begin masturbating at about this age while boys start at age 12/13. It's completely normal. Of course most young children this age who masturbate aren't thinking about sexual thoughts, it's just a natural, hardwired process the body goes through.

 
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Re: can a virgin masturbate?

November 29 2006, 7:19 PM 

I'm gonna answer this question with my own question ^_^;

About the vibrators....I'm a virgin myself and I bought myself a vibrator/dildo about a year and a half ago....but it hurt whenever I used it (I was never able to get it "in" per se)....is that normal? Or was I doing something wrong?

 
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is a doctor

December 2 2006, 11:00 PM 

very very very abnormal u must see a doctor because that is somthing very serious...


 
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Leonie
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Re: can a virgin masturbate?

December 9 2006, 4:41 PM 

dont worry about it. i had the same thing but with using tampons. because im a swimmer i do have to use tampons but my first time i used one it wouldn't go in because of the pain i was in. And tampons are usually alot smaller than dildos and vibrators. Anyways... i went to the doctor and the reason i couldn't get the tampons in was because the walls of my vagina were too thick so i continually went to the doctor for a few months trying different techniques and in the end i was able to use tampons, dildos and finally have sex without being in great deal of pain
i hope this helps but yes you should definately go see a doctor

 
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Meg
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Re: can a virgin masturbate?

December 3 2006, 7:05 PM 

Of course you can masterbate. You just need to find different ways in which to please yourself. Maybe get a vibrator as well if your fingers don't work.

 
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Rub it

February 8 2007, 9:48 AM 

Climbing trees and ropes, can greatly enhance a clitorial stimulation without finger manipulation. Just brush lightly against. If your very young the same can be achieved against a door by hoding onto the door knobs and pulling yourself up, lightly brushing against it with each pull upward. Relax, using your fingers sometimes takes away your feeling!

 
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