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what should I do?

June 23 2005 at 11:54 PM
me  (no login)

I've got a couple questions. I don't shave down there that much so when I do it get so irritated, the shave is never close, and when it grows back it feels like hell! I've been thinking about getting it waxed, but I hear that waxing your bikini area can be really really really really painful! Is it worth all the pain?

And the next one is that I've always been pretty embarrassed about guys touching or looking at me down there because of the hair. I've never gone completely bald when I know a guy would look/touch down there because I'm embarrassed of my very large inner lips. What type of patterns do guys like the most? Right now I've just got a basic triangle...but I take care of it when I know it will be touched, etc. What turns a guy on the most? Is there a certain pattern men prefer or do they just like it bald?

 
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joe
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Re: what should I do?

June 26 2005, 11:37 AM 

One can only give you general gidelines. Don't worry about your lips.It's a turn on for most men to see awoman's lips while looking at her whole cunt. Don't shave there is nothing worse than prickly thighs. There are some good hair removal creams ask the girls at your pharmacy. Wear high cut panties while removing and a pad to make sure the cream does not go on your lips. Remove the hair around your anus-if any. Probably you should not wear high cut panties. If your hair comes to your navel don't worry wear panties that covers it. Hair protruding from panties is not attractive. There is no better turn on for most men than a well groomed very hairy pussy. Ask your boy friend to help.What colour is your pussy?

 
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me
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Re: what should I do?

June 28 2005, 6:58 PM 

Haha...um...well I'm white, and I've got pretty fair skin... I'd say that it's...flesh-coloured? To be a little more specific, I'd have to say that everything on the outside is fair, and everything on the inside is some shade of pink...:D

 
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Anonymous
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Re: what should I do?

June 29 2005, 7:57 AM 

I am maaried and have an answer. let your husband trim you the way he likes it. He is the one u need to please.

 
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Goddess
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hair is not nice

July 1 2005, 11:09 AM 

I hate pubic hair lol. I would say shave it the way hubby likes it and once you do it a lot, it will not hurt and it will not give you razor bumps. I believe it took me about a year of shaving but eventually it stopped getting bumpies.

Hope this helps!

 
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Anonymous
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Re: what should I do?

July 5 2005, 9:25 AM 

Don't shave. I am a man and view girls that shave as being sort of fast. Trim short but nor prickly short. For some reason wmoen feel big vulvas are ugly. They are not. Your pussy looks healthy, it is great to suck on and perfect for a hand made masturbation. Enjoy you have it all.

 
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me
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Re: what should I do?

July 16 2005, 11:01 PM 

thank you...not that I don't appreciate all the comments left, but I especially appreciate the comments left by men...it's good to know your opinions since you're the ones who I'm trying to please. :)

 
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Hairy

August 5 2005, 7:01 PM 

We real men prefer hairy women tha apear adult and ready. We are not attracted to prepubecent girls.

 
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gimmerz
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shaved

February 4 2006, 10:10 AM 

Hi im a guy and have read the last couple of replies to your message. At he end of the day its gonna be your choice. Its not gonna be perminent if you do shave it so really you dont have ant thing to lose. From my experience and shaving my private area it takes a while for your sensitive skin to get used to being shaved. If you can get passed this stage and decide you like the look then its really nice and can be fun with trying different shapes and stuff. I personally prefer a well kept bush such as a brazilian but i would understand if my girl didnt want to do it. Just go with what you feel is going to suit you. Bye.

 
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The Seiko Cleancut Intimate Area.

August 26 2005, 3:50 AM 

I bought it after reading about it and it's great. You can remove everything, even the hair just inside your lips and right at the entrance to the vagina. It doesn't leave you with a rash, you don't get razor burn and you don't get any cuts. Best of all it can be used in your own home. It takes about 20 minutes to do a thorough job if the hair is more than 1 or 2mm. But after the first removal 10 mins. Body4Real are doing an offer at the moment of 25%off one of these. They are 29.99 but when you think of the money you might spend on other types of hair removal...most of which involve pain, this is definitely worth the money. I wouldn't go back to using a razor or waxing(too painful). Anyway hope this is of help to you

 
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does it hurt to shave

October 23 2005, 4:12 PM 

I love the look of a mature hairy pussy and thick pussy lips.....dont worry...things will work out...

 
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cock rider
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shave that shit

November 4 2005, 7:34 PM 

cunt hair are nasty

 
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Big Pussy
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DOnt shave

November 12 2005, 10:01 PM 

Girl, dont shave, the three guys Ive ha got turned on by my hair. Thats how i first had sex. so keep O-natural because my men love it hairrrry

 
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Victoria
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not sure what to do

December 9 2005, 10:45 AM 

I started shaving my vagina about a year ago. normally, I do not get cuts. I was shaving earlier today and I accidently cut my vagina near the right lip. I just bought a new razor and was using that. I make sure I'm gentle with the razor when shaving that area. I'm not sure how to treat vaginal razor cuts. anyone got any advice for me?

 
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ryan
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hi

January 2 2006, 8:00 PM 

You dont need to shave,just as long as it is trimmed up you will be fine.make sure its not TOO long but prickley is bad...

 
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Paul
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Be Proud

January 4 2006, 7:50 AM 

I don't have an explanation why but I love a full bush. The more hair the better. If you shave your bikini or panty line that's just fine. But when I slip off a woman's thong or panties I want to see HAIR! This whole trend to shave your pussy hair completely off is a BIG turn off to me. If you compare porno movies from years ago to what's done now back then all the girls had hair. Now it's common practice to shave completely or just leave a patch above the slit. I say bring back pussy hair!

 
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Mr. Sleek
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Go Hairless

January 28 2006, 8:38 PM 

In my opinion there is nothing that looks better then a hair-free body and it looks cleaner too. It actually is cleaner, since all the sweat and the dead skin cells tend to stick to the hair all over the body. Plus, if my partner's vagina is hair-free, I am more prone to thinking that she really takes care of herself and her body. I do not think that age has anything to do with it, since people epilate, not because they want to look 'prepubescent' or because of the advertisement. It simply makes them look better and cleaner - throught histtory Egyptians and Romans considered a perfect body - a hairless body, so its not just modern fashion. I think that there are mostly three effective ways to remove body hair: waxing, sugaring and laser treatment. Everything else is inconvenient. In your case, I would suggest sugaring- it can be made at home and it doesn't hurt as much as waxing. Plus, only the first time is painful (speaking from experience)

 
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