I was wondering if there is one on the market you could use (at least on the mons pubis and sides) instead of having to shave your whole self.

I realize the kind for legs are too harsh.

..i wouldnt. if you must, im in australia and we have veet cream for sensitive skin - but still, i think they're talking face, which is totally different that something that will touch your vulva. But its designed to essentially burn the hair away, and i don't know about you, but burning creams and something as sensitive as the vagina probably isn't advisable.

Well, I found some at Walmart that was for the bikini area, extra gentle. And I used it on the outer parts of my vulva, not the inner and it worked pretty well. Cut the job of shaving in half.