I can't speak for all men, but I know the opinions of many of my friends.

Generally speaking, the men I know like three basic styles(in no particular order):

1) Shaved or waxed bare
2) Neatly trimmed traditonal "V-Shape"
3) More natural bush, trimmed according to seasonal needs

Anything in between is confusing.....

We may enjoy a landing strip or such, but it is not OUR particular preference necessarily. And if you have a unique grooming style, who is it for? You? An ex who liked it that way? A stripper you saw once? Your idea of what men in general want?

Sure, it's your vagina and you can grrom it anyway you desire. If you have a strong preference personally then do it.

But, trust me, all too often women overdo their grooming. Stick to the three

So true.

I often wonder whether a new girlfriend is groomed according to her ex's desires or
trying to look good naked in general for other men. Or other women.

Take it all off if you like the look and sensation.

If you can't deal with the stubble or ingrown hairs, then trim it within reason to fit your overall body.

If you are more of an earthy chick then grown it out.

Don't go for a Ziggy Stardust and assume it's hot