a person who truly believes she is submissive comes to realize that she isn't. She entered the D/s relationship/contract with full heart and turned her will over, only to discover herself and her full strength as a person, an empowered individual.
In no way does the responsibility land at the feet of her Dom. Through him, she found her. Through him, she knows the power of herself and recognizes/embraces his contribution. With him, there is still an intensely, loving relationship that is no longer 24/7 D/s. That relationship is missed, at times, and its dissolution discussed with no blame tied to either the Dom or the sub.
That "sub" is one who can only sub in short, sexually-oriented bursts. A lighter version of D/s, but D/s none the less...(feel free to offer opinions on that one. I welcome the discussion.)
So...I do agree that the responsibility of the relationship does not solely rest with the Dom/me. Relationships, no matter the orientation, are made up of 2 or more, and it takes more than one to determine the future.
TK's kitten, regardless..
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