~fly you have been to O/our home and seen that not all is sex within O/our relationship. Don't get me wrong, it's there and damn good. ~wicked lil grin~ However, i get alot of pleasure from just being in His presence, massaging His feet and shoulders, cutting His hair. All non sexual. Sometimes i will slip into sub space when cooking something i know that He especially likes.
Unfortunately in cyber, sex is emphasised so frequently that new submissives think that is all there is to BDSM. If the ones that have been around longer can take the time to help educate the newbies, maybe they will actually get a clue.
If we don't the player and wannabe Dom's will get them into their clutches and well...that is when they learn that sex is what D/s is all about. sad but true. Even sadder is the fact that most newbies won't listen when an older and more experienced submissive tries to help them wade through the waist deep bull**** out there. ~shrugging~ you know it's true.
Well once again there goes my two cents again.
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