*smiles to Passion with a whispered Thank You for the prayers for my daughter*
Well now to the question at hand.....
Speaking as Sswitch , (Which Mmany know I am at home a Domme to my husband as well as a c/t and r/t a sub to my Master) I don't feel it had/ has barring on my sub side at all in a "bad way"more over I feel it has Actually made me want to seek out more and learn, feel and get into that sub space I as a Domme could create for my sub. It makes me want to feel that space and obtain the feelings I see I can bring one too. For me it has actually made the need to be submissive greater, brought out more feelings on the sub side and more desire to learn. On a whole it's why I came to cyber space in search of my sub side because here in my r/t realm I don't get that opportunity to be submissive (often) and I need that in my life. I'm the chief cook and bottle washer in charge all the time of everything it seems and I really NEED to let it ALL go at times ( hell all the time *L*) I need to feel the caring, compassion of a Master and want to give up the control my daily life brings to me allowing Him to meet my needs in all ways as I serve Him. For me submission is a total package consisting of many parts, but for me it's 75% emotional for me and the other 25% is where the other aspects come into play.
As far as the OMG theory I think Eeveryone has a different way to obtain certain goals, feelings etc in mind when scening. It's just like having a favorite color or fav pair of shoes, I certainly don't want to wear someone's else shoes or have to have there favorite color as mine and I don't put Oothers down for having them as there's either. I think it's the same in "tools of the trade" so to speak Wwe Aall use different means to get to the same places. Therefore I think it's another learning tool to scene with someone who is using a different method of flogging or tying or learning in any way really then what I would use. Makes me get a bit creative on my DOMME side to "try-out" these ways as well at times when I think it's useful. each time I scene I learn something different about my Master and / or My sub at home thus a learning experience as well as a wonderful scene/feeling. I don't find myself having a conflict or wanting to "tell Master ( oh like my fanny wouldn't be sorry if I tried *L*) Your doing that wrong Sir" or even thinking it as He as I have different ways of getting to Oour goals.
I think being a Sswitch can be good and bad, the good side is it allows you to explore different feelings and experience things from another point of view thus learning always on BOTH sides and the bad is your at times torn on what side is pulling you more, Like with myself I'm finding I'm more submissive then I am DOMME and it's a hard choice at times since my "homelife" is that of a Wife, Mother , Business Owner and Mistress and I only get to be submissive which I crave more and more when I'm with Master either on-line or in person which at this time in my life I'm finding isn't often enough at times although I want it to be more I / Wwe can't fit Oour schedules together enough to meet Oour hearts desires.
Well enough of my ramblings, Passion Thanks for the great question, *blowing Him a kisskiss*
Be Well, Play Safe and Learn at Will...
~servile~
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