IMHO ~ the bdsm that I consider *chuckling here* "regular bdsm" is perhaps that which plays to the best case scenario of "how things are done". With most of the SM play there is certain innate dangers however we strive to make them as safe as possible by . . . learning techniques, taking safety courses, (by the way how many of you have taken first aid and cpr), discussed how many of the physical aspects of what is done ie bondage, electric play, wax play, suspension, flogging etc (I am sure you get the idea by now) can be done w/minimal risk.
To me "edge play" is that which without being a fluid bonded relationship engages in blood sport, any other activity that exchanges bodily fluids, "regular play" w/o precautions ie electric play w/o responsibly finding out what is safe, soundings come to mind . . . fisting (again w/o knowledge) and things that can leave permanent either physical or mental damage.
Too often we focus simply on the physical w/o thinking of the emotional consequences of some of the "play".
Responsibility cannot or should not be totally abdicated by the submissive . . . (again in my opinion). BDSM, best case scenario, is for those that take the responsiblity for their actions and those that they play with. It should be an experience that leave both partners better for the relationship.
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