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How many of you practice one form of deception or another in regards to your BDSM relationships? Do you lie to a spouse? Does your Top/Dom/me/Master/Mistress/sub/slave/bottom know that you are married? Does your significant other know that you have online relationships but not what kind? Do they know you have relationships (of any kind) but not that you have met the person or plan on meeting them, or that you are "in love"?? How does deception affect the matter of consensuality in a BDSM relationship? If one of two in a D/s relationship is married, and the spouse is unaware, does their lack of knowledge make any difference? Can a person uninvolved in a scene affect consensuality in this way?
A lot to think over, but we hope it stimulates some good discussions this week.
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