My views on this subject have changed a bit, I've changed a bit. I used to feel that if one had an online relationship and it was merely that, and being married it didn't matter as long as the spouse knew and didn't object. I was always quite open with my ex-husband about my interest and activities involving BDSM online but he kind of ignored it and finally took a "don't ask, don't tell" stand. My marriage would have ended even if I hadn't had an online relationship, that is very evident to me now. Who am I to judge what another does as right or wrong, I have a lot on conflicting ideas about this topic which are really jumbled up right now since my divorce and finding out it wasn't at all what I thought it was in hindsight. People do a lot of "good" things for the wrong reasons and a lot of "bad" things for the right reasons. I hope a tiny bit of this is makign sense. There are lots of different kinds of people out there with lots of different ways of living their life, I'm just gonna let 'em keep living it their way and keep living mine my way. But just to let you know, I could never have another realtionship, online or any other kind, besides the relationship I'm in, it's all comsuming and completely fulfilling in ways I never knew possible....
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