Hmmm...an introduction of some kind is most likely necessary before I begin.
I'm also a vanilla seeking to find myself or even to find out if this lifestyle is for me. Robyn and I have a long history that doesn't really need to be posted here. If Y/you're curious, please ask her or me directly if Y/you see me around. Me? I have sub leanings. I see that in myself, but I don't know if I'm really sub material. And it's not because Robyn may be a Domme that I may be a sub. I just don't know enough about myself or the lifestyle yet.
Robyn,
You definitely have Domme tendencies, but I do not know if that means that you are a Domme. You may turn out to be what you often call yourself. An educated vanilla. But, to paraphrase a cliche...there are Dommes, and there are Dommes. I don't see you ever in a Total Power Exchange relationship, but possibly as a Domme in a relationship that is a union of two equals in many ways, but D/s in others.
shrug
That just my one cent. I don't know enough to throw in two cents.
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