I guess it could in some realtionships, and i've seen it in a few like my nieces where she was so totally dependent on Duelist that it was increditable sad when He passed away as she was/ is so lost still she's left the lifestyle altogether for the time being in search of herself.
My thoughts...
1. A Master doesn't = Your personailty He/She adds to it.
2. A sub doesn't = a Master's person only adding to it.
3. If treated with respect love , compassion, honor, understanding and communication a realtionship flourishs and Eeach grown not only in D/s but in security in the realtionship, which i think allows Ppeople in general to be more independent yet have a Strong BOND and KNOW there place in the realtionship. *praying that run on sentence made sense *
4. A Master will ensure His is not soley dependent on Him in case of a death, separation I would think. Isn't that part of caring for one, to also ensure they can/ will make proper descions when not in Your presence?
Just my humble opinions and Thoughts...
Be Well, Play Safe and Learn at Will...
~servile~
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