When I first ran into my Master online He asked me if I was strong enough to be dominated. Now in all honesty that type of question floored me, and I didn't know what He ment by it. I never stop to think if I was strong. I know that I can be a bitch.. angelic smile, laughing.. I know that I am strong willed, opinionated, and all those happy things. But I also take that as a person that knows who they are.. I mean for me you have to know who you are if you are going to be in this lifestyle. To know yourself is to give strength to you and those around you or so in my humble opinion anyways..
Master says that a true slave or as He likes to call His 'la kajira' has to be strong, because His girl ends up giving her will to Him.. oh granted there are times that I want to pout and just growl at Him cause of something He said, but I don't. Is it strong to bite back your feelings? Yes I think it is.. doesn't mean I don't talk to Him about it later when I am not ready to bite His head off..laughing
Naw just kidding. But seriously.. even when I was submissive.. I felt I was strong and only a strong Master/Mistress would be able to keep my in my spot as Their submissive and not give in all the time like how dei pointed out.
So which one is stronger in my eyes? Neither. Because it is a power play between the M and s. The M because They know when to put their foot down on certain things and keep Theirs inline of being a submissive/slave and a s because they are strong enough to back down and say 'yes Master/Mistress' and do the will of their M.
I hope I made sense on this one.. it is hitting 4 am and just finish working. laughing
night night A/all.. hugs and kisses
As Always,
~des~ aka pele{P}
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