For the most part, when the one I'm with isn't able to carry on the relationship for whatever reason, I still try to remain friends. There is no question that I would be hurt, but I know that, the person must be a special person for I cared enough about them to have some form of a relationship with them. I definitely wouldn't want that person out of my life. It might be a difficult pill to swallow at first, but there are reasons behind everything and it wasn't meant to be.
When one loses faith in themselves, I try to be as supportive as I can. Ask questions to stimulate their mind into thinking about it. I wouldn't just let the person off. I would do all that I could to help the person grow and learn if I was allowed to. If they don't really want to seek out what the problem is within..then it's my opinion that they really don't care, and aren't interested. It's best then just to cut your losses and concentrate on oneself.
My opinion on the subject..
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