I would love to give one of my infamous lengthy wordy responses to this, but there really is nothing left to say. I agree with all of the stated opinions that neither T/D/M nor b/s/s is stronger, and with all of the reasons. It takes strength to play each part, to take each side...but different kinds of strength. I've tried submission - I don't have that kind of strength. I'm exploring now, and trying to learn if I have the strength to be Dominant.
~R |