What arrangements do you make, between Dom/me and sub (and all related terms, if necessary) for re-negotiating your relationship, or for lodging a protest about the way that the relationship is handled, or a protest with a particular order? If you are a T/D/M or b/s/s, with or without a reciprocal partner, this question is for you. If you have a relationship, describe what methods are in place for dealing with problems. If you are not in a relationship, discuss what methods you would like to have in place when entering a relationship.
Some of you will have this in the form of a contract. For some of you it is unspoken that when one partner is unhappy they should speak with the other partner. Some of you do NOT have any way to deal with this situation, trusting in the T/D/M to make the decisions that will make both parties happy, and trusting that temporary unhappiness is in the best interests of the b/s/s for the good of both partners or the relationship. We would like to hear how you deal with this, and why you have chosen the methods that you have.
Looking forward to a good discussion
The Council
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