The room doesn't matter, it's the people in it...~laugh~. I chat where I chat because it is familiar. I enjoy discussions when they arise but I certainly do not go to any chat room to get an education. If I want to know about somethign I find the information and make my own decisions. I've only recently found a munch in my area, up until now, aside from visits and my submissive coming to live with me, I have had nowhere else to meet people interested in BDSM. Maybe it's snotty or snobbish of me, but after going r/t c/t scenes do nothing for me. ~shrugs~ I have no wish to see them, maybe because what I see seems so shallow, not genuine? More than anything c/t scenes embarrass me to watch. It bugs me when people try to start discussions and they are simply ignored but chat is just that.