Does a male person have a male spirit?
Does a female person have a female spirit?
If you answered YES to the above then explain what distingushes a male spirit from a female spirit?
If you are unable to make the distinction then there is no HIM or HER spirit in the 'earthly sense' of male and female.
However there is a reason why the Spirit of God can be represented as male but I think I will keep that reason up my sleeve for a while. JB