"A man attracts the kind of problems he has because of the kind of person he is. His negative nature duplicates itself outwardly, wherever he goes. A quarrelsome person inevitably finds himself quarreling with others. A person feeling that others will take advantage of him will actually find himself being taken. Those who reject the psychic facts of life have no choice but to encounter one rejection after another.
You do what you are. To change what you do, change who you are."
~Vernon Howard
Certainly seems to be the case. Okay, a bit of a "no brainer". Quarrelsome people quarrel.
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But 5 years ago I said NO MORE!!!! Being taken advantage of from industry nor persons.
I am not quarrelsome unless you disagree with me!

just kidding....
Live and let live, that is my motto, just don't be a contentious bitch like Gerard. Oops, I mean contentious man like Gerard.
I shouldn't talk about Gerard because I think he has deep problems. Problems I may not understand. And things he will no talk about, nor acknowledge to himself.
Ya, its a no brainer Mondo. Until you can see it threw their eyes.
Then you begin to see and feel the pain and fear and intent of the words spoken/written.
Mondo I know Gerard as a friend and Brother. But you Mondo show NOTHING of being personable, your just the MEDIAN of what you see as right and wrong.
I say Personalbility is right!
If you ain't personable what do you have? Shit from strangers that is all you can gain.
Don't be afraid to be a human!
Are you afraid to be human, who ever you are? Why?
Are you afraid no one will see you as a common friend?
GOD loves you from what I can see.
No matter who you think you are or any name or place GOD loves you for who you are.
Bro Tim in GOD