It looks to me like people use the Bible and God to validate their biases and prejudices.
That's because they are self righteous hypocrites.
Some inspiring verses
1 John 3:19-20
By this we shall know that we are of the truth and reassure our heart before him; for whenever our heart condemns us, God is greater than our heart, and he knows everything.
1 John 1:9
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead,
As far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us.
And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.
Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven;
And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.
Then Peter came up and said to him, Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times? Jesus said to him, I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.
Imagine if everyone lived by these words of wisdom? What a wonderful world it would be, but I believe that's how it will be after Jesus returns as King of kings of earth.