Arn't miserable in our associations with others. Don't condemn and judge based upon cultish beliefs with little merit.
Some of us are perhaps more spiritual than others and we can agree, disagree or just not pay attention. But what we all can agree upon is that life is good, and people for the most part are good. We should all strive to make the best of people and times, and those situations that are difficult.
It is the attempts to control and manipulate people and situations that wear us down, damage our spirit and mind. It is those futile efforts that cause disease and end in miserable and often painful death.
I prefer to not seek out the imperfections of humanity as it is a endless task of no reward other than pain. There is just far too much beauty to be absorbed thus the other is a waste of life.
It is sad that beliefs can bring forth so much misery to some.