Surgery Time

Alright all, just got off the phone with my wife, who just got back from the doctor. They have decided to take the ovaries out. She was taking the Lupron shot and when the shot wore off we were right back where we started with sleeping, depression, out of control anger etc. etc. . I am a little curious as to what to expect from this. She went to counseling for a year and finally found a female Gynocologist she could relate to and actually was able to give her the appropriate PMDD diagnosis instead of telling her she was nuts, anyway after experiencing this for so long I am excited about the prospects, but not getting my hopes up completely yet. Steve as for you I can relate, I am extremely gun shy. My wife will often ask me what is bothering me following our two week trip to hell and I really can't explain it to her. I really have come to not have any expectations from her and enjoy the good times. I read these posts and they are identical (pretty much) to how I relate to my wife. I will leave the room when she starts in because I know I am in a catch 22 situation. If I even begin to explain something I am told that I am blaming everything on her and that I do not support her and that I yada yada yada.....I know this is probably not the best thing, but sometimes I have actually started laughing becuase the things that are being said are so completely off the wall. (Let me caution you to not do this the results have never been pretty.) Well anyway I liked the desert story I read on yesterdays post I reminded myself of that last night as I was getting hell from my wife due to a dream she had the night before in which I didn't take the kids somewhere they had to be. Yes, I do get b**ched out for dreams she has. Which is also an indication to me that we are about to start our voyage again. I will keep you all updated on the surgery process, and if anyone knows of anyone who has had pmdd and then surgery let me know how it went. Later