I have been having a lot of trouble having sex because it simply hurts way too much. I finally went to the gynocologist who told me that I have oversized hymenal tissue. She said that my problem would be fixed with more lubrication but I've had the problem of being allergic to pretty much every lube we've tried and even when there's half a bottle in there it still hurts! Anyway, I am interested in some kind of surgery to remove the rest of my hymen and have not been very successful in finding information regarding the subject. I mentioned it to my gyno and she just told me that I wouldn't want to do that, I'm not really sure why. Anything anyone could offer me would be very helpful! Thank you!

I was on a Jury, and the accused Doctor had performed surgery on a hymen as he reckoned that the girl would have difficulty consumating marriage. He performed the operation in his surgery.

Doctors used to give out various sized cones which could progressively stretch the vagina of an engaged girl prior to her wedding day.

Ring back and ask the reason why she said "you wouldn't want that".

Doctors try to minimise the amount of surgery, as it is just another invasion of your body.

Try talking to all of your girlfriends that have boyfriends. Find out which one has the largest penis and then approach him to help you out. His large tool will probably do the job for you. It will hurt at first but won't kill you and will soon feel good. I'm sure any one of them will be more than willing to assist. Good luck.