About 20 years ago now I had labial reduction surgery that was botched up. Was only meant to reduce the large inner labia but the doc amputated both sides totally leaving only clitoris and the hood. I have had pain with scarring and wearing tight clothes and still do. I have been depressed on and off for years and naturally have hangups in the bedroom too. I have seen many docs and they say there is nothing they can do now so I just have to live with it, which is what I have been trying to do but it never goes away. I am always fearful of what a guy will say, although none has ever actually mentioned it. I still can enjoy sex but sometimes the scar tissue hurts afterwards, but would be way more adventurous if I didn't feel so self conscious. What would a guy think - would it put you off??????? Just be careful if you are considering surgery!!

Two seperate comments about this.

Years ago I had a GF who as a child pulled on a pot of hot water from the stove and it burned her thighs right at her groin area. So there was visable scar showing. Was different on first glance but sure did not put me off.

Now about the pain issue?

I am one of those Cut Guys and I get very sensitive after using my penis. I know IF I had not been cut this would not be an issue.

So dressing up after sex and going off to do something - I am aware of this sensitivity and it can be painful.

Now if I were you I would not give up because I bet if you search out plastic docs you can find one that can help you.

I say this because there are Plastic docs who go as far as taking off a guys parts and turning them into a full working Vagina. If they can do that they sure can add some lips back or at least solve the scar tissue issue?

This is a best guess because after viewing Britney Spears C section scar I am not sure money solves everything.

Hey thanks for the reply and something I didn't know was that men who were circed had pain sometimes too from scarring.

Anways, I am in my mid 40's now, not that I am ready for the knackers yard yet, but I think I would be too scared to let anyone near me again there with a knife to tell you the truth. I am in NZ and I don't think the docs here are as good as for example Dr Alter, who seems amazing!!

Your comment about your ex GF that had a different scarred looking vag. didn't put you off makes me think you must be a nice guy. Like I said no guy has ever mentioned it thankgod, probably because I don't expose myself there too much if I can get away with it but it is something that I am always waiting for just in case. Techniques in that kind of surgery have changed alot since I had it done 20 years ago, but I still think anyone having it done needs to really have checked out the docs experience because at the age I had it done, I was very trusting and you shouldn't be!!!!

I think you have looked at this forum and you still do not believe that guys like what you have.

You could look at this forum http://www.large-labia-productions.com/forum/

You will need to register and there is no come on for money at all. You can always pick up a throw-away email address just to register if you worry about spam etc.

First about my Cir - It is more a matter of tightness and sensitivity after having a round with my GF's. Nature did not design it that way. Plus by removing what I had - I have lost all those nerves that bring more excitment. Uncirc guys have no need for lotion when they masturbate. Cir guys do -

Since I am open about Loving the Extras you have - It is because there is more to touch - lick and play with. A Gal without any showing just shows a slit when walking around. I mean to really see anything you have to open her up - In your case you have some exciting STUFF to see at all times.

That said - sure there are guys and you see a few comments in this forum where they say they like it without the Extras.

Now if you look at your Nipples and compare to what you see in a locker room or on the net I bet you notice that there are many variations - Breasts the same - Massive variations (pardon the pun)

Imagine this - You get cut one day and end up back with some ex bf and he says - Where is all the missing STUFF I loved?

You may have no clue how hard it is/was for us guys to see what you have down there. Once we do - most of us are very happy.

Now it is down to how you shave and some guys are now asking for no hair. Not me but it takes a world to make this village.

Me I beg you to be happy with the Extras nature gave you - Now you can go to a nude beach and you will never see what the other Gals look like when they get all excited.

I know women who show almost nothing until foreplay and then they start to expand Labia and out comes more and then more.

Like a Clit which always gets bigger.

Yes I have one friend and she is Bi and she tells me she is without the extras and likes her GF's without any as well.

So sure people like what they like - In the loooong run if you are not convinced that what you have is GREAT! Then of course save the money and do what you need to do

Me I hope you doooooon't do that. Just think of all the fun things you could do with all that money!