Saw your post on the other board... Want you to know I'm thinking of you... Wish there was a way you could not think of all the bad stuff in terms of how it affects you, and just accept and love all that's wonderful in your life. You have a wonderful loving husband and a beautiful little boy, along with a new home you love and a load of frosties. What I mean, I guess is many of these things, like your parents, you have no control over. It's so toxic to dwell on them. You may ask what I know about it... I do know how incredibly painful it is to lose the love of my life and still carry on for my LO. Anyway, I hope DH is better and you all have an uneventful trip home. As for the transfer, you just have to sit back and trust the REs, like I did, while trying to be a lovely host to your embie. Good luck my friend! Only another week!!